I've been going out with this guy for about 2 months. When we first got together he was really sweet and we talked all the time. Now we only see each other like once a week & sometimes less. He always complains that I don't call him enough, but he's NEVER called me before. The only time we really talk is online. Last time we hung out he said something like "I hope I see someone I know here, hopefully a hot babe." I didn't know how to react so I just didn't say anything. I don't know what to do.
2006-07-18 03:51:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dump the loser. He is obliviously not interested in you. If he was he would not say things like that and he would spend every minute with you like he did at the start of the relationship. It sounds like he is just keeping you around for convenient times. Dump him, and if he really does love/like you, then he will try to work things out. Good luck!
2006-07-18 03:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you summed it up.... jerk. Everyone is on their guard and sometimes best behavior when you are first getting to know them, it only after a little time that you see how they are... sometimes good sometimes not. I can tell from a guy perspective that by not calling, his apathy is trying to show control or dominance... basically saying "it's your place to keep the relationship alive if you want it." Also, it is harmless to notice other "hot women" or "hot men" (for the girls). But he wasn't noticing them, he was trying to seek them out, which is completely different. He may have been trying to see what your reaction would be, but obviously since he even brought it up other women are on his mind. The early part of a relationship is supposed to be all about finding each other and building a trust. And if this is how he is toward you now, then it always will be with him. I think that I would ditch him before I wasted more than just 2 months. Look on the bright side... better to find out he is a jerk now, before you waist years on him.
2006-07-18 04:09:09 · answer #2 · answered by linetap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 06:52:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's only been 2 months and he is starting to act like a jerk now, It will only get worse. People always are on there best behavior in the first 6 months of a relationship. Then the real person starts to show through. Honey, it's only been 2. Get rid of him now.
2006-07-18 03:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by skipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend you don't care and if I were you I would start looking for somenoe else on the side.Follow you'r gut you know what it means when he says"(I hope I see a hot babe")Just remember you have plenty of time and don't let this loser ruin a few good months that you could be having fun on SUMMER vacation.
2006-07-18 03:57:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kind of a jerk, I think the best thing you could do is to stop calling him. It doesn't sound like he feels the same way about you as you feel about him. It's only been 2 months, move on.
2006-07-18 03:55:02 · answer #6 · answered by Phillip B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on. After 2 months, it seems he's just not that into you. And he's never called you??? That's just nuts. You're wasting your time on a guy who's too much of a wuss to tell you like it is. You shouldn't be doing all the pursuing...that should be all him at this point.
2006-07-18 03:55:39 · answer #7 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he's losing interest. Just slide away and move on. Sounds like he might not even notice. If you keep chasing him you'll just get your heart broke. The way it's supposed to work is the guy is supposed to chase after you and you play hard to get. You'll know who's genuine that way. Good luck in your search for true love. There is someone for you be patient and he will find you.
2006-07-18 04:05:01 · answer #8 · answered by Go Rush! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't wait around. The best thing to do to re-spark the romance is to make a plan yourself and offer him to tag along with you. For example: "Hey, I'm going to the mall to buy a CD wanna come with?" Then you can gage his interest from there
2006-07-18 03:57:26 · answer #9 · answered by vw2fix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people put on a mask going into a relationship their true color come out later...Also sounds like you guys are just friends not in a relationship.
2006-07-18 03:56:22 · answer #10 · answered by The Master 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋