I have a girlfriend whom i love so much,initially when we started off,she told me she have a boyfriend,but i still carried on with the relationship,base on the fact that she told me to play on very well that she will leave her boyfriend for me,and i did everything humanly possible to make sure i provide her want and her heart desire,i tried to make her feel loved,but at the end i finds out that the closer we ge,t the closer she get wit her boyfriend.
Right now she spends more time with him than myself,pls i really love this girl and i dont want to loose her,what do i do to hold her back,what do i do to make her love me even more.
I need response from any quarter.
2006-07-18
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Charles O
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you need to start loving yourself before you can love someone else, you obviosuly do not love yourself at the moment or you would of walked a long long time ago, she is just playing you off on each other having her cake and eating it she will NEVER leave him if she was going to she would of done it straight away
go out with your mates i know it will be hard but forget about her she is a HO!
2006-07-18 03:49:32
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answered by ♥Pink Princess♥ 3
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Hard as it might be you need to break up with this girl. She is completely faithless and a liar - she is cheating on her boyfriend and stringing you along. She wants to have her cake and eat it. You have known this girl is dishonest from the start as she lied to her current boyfriend about you - there is no way you can ever trust her. It was wrong to become involved with someone who was attached in the first place. This may seem harsh, but you cannot build a solid relationship from here as there is no trust or care, so it is better to walk away, no matter how much you think you love her.
Sorry.
2006-07-18 11:08:31
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answered by peggy*moo 5
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Im afraid she is having her cake and eating it!! She will never leave him and is having the best of both worlds by the sounds of it! You need to be strong and end the relationship now. You will find someone else, there are plenty of fish in the sea...
A friend of my boyfriends is marrying a girl next month who is still living with her ex boyfriend. Crazy!! End this before it gets even messier! Good luck x
2006-07-18 11:04:09
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answered by Lorraine A 3
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I understand that you love this girl very much.She is not right for you but if you still want her,try to be damn cool about things.Get to know about the things that she likes and act accordingly.Try and be a friend of her boyfriend and get a makeover done if bad looking.You have to work hard if you want her.Just be her perfect man.
WARNING!!!!!!!!!!!-If you are proud of yourself don't be.Someday or the other you will get her.Promise.
PS-If this does not work move on to somebody else, there are tonnes and tonnes of girls out there.Best Of Luck.
2006-07-18 11:10:44
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answered by Sid 2
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You can't go on like this. For your own self you need to leave her alone. I know it'll hurt but you'll get better in time and then you'll find a woman who is worthy of you, and when you do find that good one out there make sure you don't do her wrong.
2006-07-18 10:49:18
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answered by synchronicity915 6
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If you must have an unfaithful girlfriend, you should dump her strangly she will find you irresitable.
If she just accepts that it's over it's because she was planning on finishing it anyway.
Your choice, be strong.
Ps You do know that there are ton's of great girls out there, get yourself a good one.
2006-07-18 10:54:33
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answered by Anonymous
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Dump her, if shes cheating on her lad to be with you she would just do the same thing to you. She cant feel anything for you if she is staying with him and i think its all for herself, the fact she has 2 blokes. Dont waste your time on her and find someone who deserves your love.
2006-07-18 10:49:45
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answered by CrayzeeKat 3
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Stop worrying about the other chap. Sometimes you can spot that she is cheating if you come home and find her in bed with someone else; its normally a good clue!
2006-07-18 10:50:26
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answered by Anonymous
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what else do you need to know that you don't already? she has a boyfriend dude. she's cheating on HIM with YOU. You aren't even in the game, get it?
2006-07-18 10:50:01
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answered by Marlin Darlin 4
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if the girl is not interested then u dont show her that u need her n make her jealous in any possible way.
2006-07-18 10:50:00
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answered by ilove y 1
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