Why is it the man's fault?

Question

I hear a lot of women blame men for unwanted pregnancies by saying he didn't take the proper precautions, he didn't use a condom. First off, the women are sleeping with them and should know if the man put the condom on or not, second of all, it should not fall on the man to be the only one to take "precautions". What do you think?

Answer 1

I am a woman and I believe is the Woman's responsibility....

a) " Wont' do it without a condom"
b) Being on the pill
c) Using a diaphragm
e) Knowing your cycles
f) other precautions.

after all if is not rape, is consensual, right?

Answer 2

The man is also sleeping with the woman, he should know better. It has always been left up to the woman to take the precaution WHY???? You guys should know its always safer with a condom so why risk your little friend to a desease or worse unexpected pregnancy.
You know if a guy got pregnant things would still be dumped on the woman to take care of business....Old problem will never be solved in my lifetime or yours. Woman are the mothers of the world we have to always take care of everything It makes me MAD!!!
BOOOM!!!!

Answer 3

I think you are absolutely correct, it is up to us to make sure we are protected ladies, we are the ones that will have to carry the child no matter who's fault it is. Your body belongs to you, and no one is more concerned about you, than you. I believe a woman should have enough respect for her self than to put her self in that situation, why else would you sleep with a man unprotected except to have a baby, women need to grow up and take responsibility for them selves. Ever heard the saying "mom-ma's baby, daddy's maybe" This is not a cut to anyone, but how silly dose one sound when she says "he got me pregnant, it's all his fault" Ladies protect your selves, or blame yourselves. It dose take two, but you make sure your protected, because a baby is not the only thing you can get, and if he will sleep with you unprotected, guess what, he's done it with someone else also!

Answer 4

Woman are very fickle creatures and will forever be the pillar of strength and down fall for every man.... They're just as bad as men and in some cases even worst. but no matter what happens to the world it's ALWAYS our fault.... When in reality there's a manipulative woman behind every man- so we bite the bullet if anything goes wrong.

just deal with man... you've got two other options, homosexuality or abstinence

Answer 5

It should be both's problem. The women should make sure to take precautions against pregnancy and std's as well as the men. As for the pregnancy, it is also both's problem.

Answer 6

It's not 'only' the man's fault but you should never assume that just because a woman lets you shtup her without a rubber, she is using protection. Take the sensible precaution of protecting yourself and you won't have to worry about who's fault it was when she's pregnant.

Answer 7

It is both their faults. But the man is the one asking for sex pressuring the women to do it. Half the time u ask a guy to wear a condom and he makes a million excuses why he can't.

The man has the sperm and if he doesn't want a baby he shouldn't plant his seed!

Answer 8

Even with precautions, I would never have sex w/a man I wouldn't want to have a child with. And asking a man "would you want to start a family if I got pregnant?" is a pretty good mood killer. . .

Answer 9

It's her egg, it's his sperm. We ALL know what the combination can do and the idea of trying to lay the blame on one sex or the other is just ridiculous, and is especially fruitless, when one has not exercised the precautions that are within their control.

If you want to dance, you gotta pay the band!

Answer 10

We woman sometimes re -act very hype because u guys wanna act lyke u the king u run things 24/7 and it gets on our nerves some guys just tell them we haviin a baby and they like what the hell with u. dat y we have 2 stay our grounds with u guys!
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