she knows i like her since i have recently told her and im pretty sure she likes me, we have been spending some time together, how should i ask? nony of this cr-ap: "Just say 'do you want to be my girlfriend'" That is obviously boring, dull and does not make a story
2006-07-18 03:41:46 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You must try to say it in a playful manner, because if you are going to do it too serious she is going to back out, or get cold feet. Take her out for a night on the town or a romantic picnic or whatever. Al matters is that she must have a good time, and that my friend, is YOUR responsibility. You will just know if the moment is right and then you ask her, do not plan it. PLAN the day and romantic events, but do not learn the actual words by hart otherwise it will come out a flop. When you reach the peak of the evening or day you must just ask her. Nobody can really tell you what to say, because it must come directly from your heart, NOT your brain. In a more serious manner you can just tell her that you recently thought about your "relationship" or you two, and you would actually like her to be your girlfriend. Like this
Kiss, smoochie smooch, kiss, loveu dovey:
You: (Looking deep in her eyes) In thought the past few days about us two, you know. And I think we will make a perfect match
She: (Smiling) uh?
You: (With playfullness and smile) Yes, I decided to give you the honor to be my girlfriend. Are you willing to accept it?
(or you can do it serious) I would like you to be my girlfriend. What do you think about it?
or
(still serious) people ask me what is between us. So I do not know what to say. But from tomorrow on I want to say you are my girlfriend. Allright! With you.
It is actually much more complicated, but this is just a few thoughts. If she really likes you she will say, she has problably already madde up her mind, so the way you ask it is not really going to make a difference. The foreplay may well make a difference. Good Luck!!!
2006-07-18 03:55:15 · answer #1 · answered by Pallie 2 · 28⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-23 04:13:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much you know the person and the right timing. Like a bad timing would be when her pet cat just died or ran away. Also you need to give the person some time to think about it. If you rush her then she is bound to say no. Also you need to think about how much this girl knows you. If she doesn't know you well then hang out with her more and let her get to know you then try asking her out.
2006-07-19 11:36:44 · answer #3 · answered by Yuki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are You My Girlfriend
2016-12-18 15:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Ask Her Straight Up
2013-12-14 22:35:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This worked for me:
After a romantic movie followed by dinner, I dropped be back at her place. Right outside her front door I grabbed both of her hands, looked her dead in the eye and said... "Hey, we have been going out for some time now and I can say without regret that I like, hell i'll go as far as to say I LOVE you. Will you do me the honor, and be my girlfriend?"
If she says "yes" follow up by giving her a warm embrace followed by a kiss...
If she says "no" or "i'll think about it"' smack the *****...
2014-04-05 15:43:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Keep up the good work. Steal a kiss and get her a little promise ring to let her know you love her and she's your girlfriend. You could give her some little thing you cherish too... or a chain or something.
If she asks what you are, just say you're girlfriend and boyfriend.
2006-07-18 03:45:30 · answer #7 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋
If she wants to go with you in that place you decided to create the environment for share your feelings in front her, just believe that she respects you and your passion. Than wait for the right moment to share your feelings to her. Remember one thing that only depends on you, must try to understand her feelings. Say her, "Will you be mine?!"
Sure she will be your's.
2015-08-14 05:48:40 · answer #8 · answered by minhajul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-09 00:21:49 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her "Every time I am with you , I can feel every part of me smiling. I was wondering if you would be interested in taking this relationship to it's next step. . .perhaps a more dedicated commitment toward one another to see where this can lead to". If she disagrees, somehow you misread her signals. . .
2006-07-18 03:49:16 · answer #10 · answered by zambranoray 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋