but when you confront them they lie!!
2006-07-18 03:29:46 · 12 answers · asked by beavis 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
wen i catch my husband doing that..and i ask him that why he does it..his reply is...its the way they dress...they dress so perogitivly that he finds it disgusting and thats why he looks...lol he says why do they even bother wearing anything..cos they hardly got anythin on...its that type of girls that he looks at ...no the sensible dresed gals lol...i jus roll my eyes at him lol...and say look as much as u want but not wen im with you...cos i feel as though the gals that he is lookin at is laffin at me...cos my mans starin at her....hope u get wat im tryin to say lol.
2006-07-18 03:40:26 · answer #1 · answered by whistleblower 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is no need to "confront" him about it because really he's not doing anything wrong. If he goes over to start chatting the girl up - then you confront him!
He's lying because he doesn't want to upset you. If he is lying that is. Most men probably don't realise they're even looking half the time!
I know from a gilrfriends point of view it can make us feel a bit akward sometimes but you just have to remeber, we do it too but we are just slightly more discreet about it and your boyfriend is with you, not anyone else.
2006-07-18 04:12:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's interesting, my girlfriend also spends time 'eyeing up' other girls when we are out together.
Clearly a 'Men Only' sport.
When confronted, I (miserably) totally fail to lie (sorry), and own up to what I see, like etc.
It's a shared Hobby with mutual benefits.
Sash.
2006-07-18 03:43:37 · answer #3 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have got a really good, strong relationship with my partner and i think it is because i don't make a fuss and will also make comments about girls (nice ones) and will just laugh and take the piss when i see him looking at girls in the mirror as we are driving along. Don't make it out to be a problem and he will soon get bored!!
2006-07-18 03:33:58 · answer #4 · answered by Little_Chicken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men will always look at other attractive women - it is in their nature and they will not change. It is normal. It doesn't mean that they want to leave us for them! If you think hard you will realise that you do it too! We all do! Its natural. Just have a laugh with it - if I see it happening I will comment on how lovely she is or remark on something like her style or hair etc...... If you come across as all possessive and freaked out then this is not good! Chill!!
2006-07-18 03:39:10 · answer #5 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stop looking at us when we are at the mall and stuff, then you'll stop catching us eyeing up and visually undressing other hotties, and then you won't have to confront us (because you don't know about it), and we don't have to lie about it...make sense.
2006-07-18 03:35:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its pleasent and pleasing to look. Its nice to fantasize for a short moment. It helps the ego. Its not a knock on you(female partner) Its just that they are pretty and we like to look.
Lie---to overt confrontations with the one they have a relationship with.
2006-07-18 03:34:56 · answer #7 · answered by Handsup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just smile, its a man thing, they all look but they all go home to the love of their life at the end of the day because its were they truely want to be, stop worrying and just be happy to know you are the one he choose to spend his life with ok.
2006-07-18 03:39:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They look because they breath.
They lie only when the person they are with thinks its wrong.
2006-07-18 03:58:36 · answer #9 · answered by i.needitall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him eye and you can eye good looking guys too.
2006-07-18 05:39:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋