I don't want to marry someone who is married or that still want me to bear children for him, all what I want is sleeping together, discussing on progress, feeling at home and staying with each other like husband and wife. If he wants me to be bearing his name, no problem and if he doesn't want no problem either. I just want to live a lively life with happiness and the person should be trustworthy.
2006-07-18 03:18:33 · 11 answers · asked by bola t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, first of all you need to find a guy that doesn't want any children and your children be enough for him. You want have a problem finding someone to sleep with but might be a problem with the commitment. Go on the on line dating....there should be some guys out there that will fit your needs.
2006-07-18 03:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you possibly need to get other priorities out of the way first. When was the last time you concentrated an entire day to YOU?
There was once a woman with a child on a plane that was going down. There is only enough time to put the oxygen mask on either you OR the child. So which one do you choose?
You silly! If you put the oxygen mask on the child he/she would just pull it off and you would both die anyway. If you put the mask on YOURSELF and then the child (the child may pass out for a sec) Then you BOTH live!You might be able to save many more lives on the plane too.
Spoil yourself for a while. Be happy that you have children. It is NOT a downfall. If you are excited to be alive...someone will be excited to be alive with you. : )
2006-07-18 11:00:31 · answer #2 · answered by lotsalove83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to be patient. When my parents divorced, my dad was single with 4 kids (2 living at home still) and 1 grandkid... He was in his late 40's I think. He started chatting on Yahoo of all places and eventually met someone in the area he enjoyed chatting with and they eventually met, began dating and now have been married for like 5 years lol. I guess you just have to be careful but get out there and live life and hopefully find the right guy. It's possible. Just be careful and don't let anyone treat you poorly - you've been through too much already for that BS.
2006-07-18 10:36:57 · answer #3 · answered by chem_princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. What a situation. But it isn't something that couldn't be worked out with the right people involved. As long as you are not trying to replace the kids' dad, you should just be fine. You're probably tired of hearing that. I know. I'm a single dad of 2. I'm 35. But one thing I'm learning slowly but surely is that I have to focus on myself. chem_princess and lotsalove83 got it pretty much. Mr. Right will come along. Just be careful with Mr. Right-Now. No sense of being mommy if you are all screwed up.
Good luck to you.
2006-07-18 11:38:32 · answer #4 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to meet people in your same situation--older guys who are just looking for companionship, not to start a family. A good start would be to find a hobby that tends to attract men who are in your age group, and spend time with that hobby to get to know a bunch of the people there.
2006-07-18 10:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by Torero In Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lasso them and then slip them a sedative... Only kidding! Just be yourself. Don't appear desperate or lay your heart on the line too soon - they need to feel that you want them for them, not just because its someone to marry
2006-07-18 10:23:36 · answer #6 · answered by Funky_Vic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 Children??? Oh good God in Heaven nooooooooooo!!!
2006-07-18 10:25:57 · answer #7 · answered by Married Male 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start looking for friendship, and if its meant to be then it will turn to love
2006-07-18 10:26:02 · answer #8 · answered by dee r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure you want a husband and not a boy-toy? those are easier to find
2006-07-18 10:27:05 · answer #9 · answered by King H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you get an answer email me..i need to know this also
2006-07-18 10:21:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋