2006-07-18 03:13:39 · 18 answers · asked by lori w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
um u kinda r. u knew he was married. don't get me wrong, he's also to blame, but you knew about his wife and you continued for over a yr
2006-07-18 03:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by h_wallbanga 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This isn't a question my friend. Therefore ... there is no answer. However I can make a comment. He didn't make you to be the bad person. I'm pretty sure he told his wife some storytales about you. He may have even went so far as to say, you approached him. Even if you did ... he would try to make it seem like he would only see you in public places and/or at work. I would like to know when you found out he was married. I hope you say something like yesterday or atleast last week. How can someone "DATE" a "MARRIED" man any damn way? LOL
2006-07-18 10:22:26 · answer #2 · answered by DaOne in da Boogie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when dating a married man for sure 80% of the time the wife will know as time goes by..he didnt care about you at all he got what he wanted. im currently dating a married man and i know how to play the game.never show a maried guy u are inlove with him course the is no way he is going to leave his wife for you.
2006-07-18 10:19:26 · answer #3 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
over a year you dated this guy you are to blame don't get me wrong but not all the blame is yours. Where did you see the relationship going it makes no sense get over it I hope you learn a good lesson that you would be more cautious in the future and leave people Husband alone and I truly hope you have enough sense not to take him back because he will be back with some sloppy story send him packing and give it time all wound heel even matters of the heart
2006-07-18 10:23:45 · answer #4 · answered by playful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there done that! If you knew he was married;you are BOTH at fault. If you didn't know ;then he is solely at fault. Next time,a ring (or tan line) on that left ring finger means"I am married.But if you can settle for a little of my time.No REAL love from me.No way that I am leaving my wife.Well if you can settle for this-let's have sex!" Trust me,Hon-married men will stay that way. They are NOT leaving their wife for you.And they WILL blame you EVERY time! You are not a bad person,you just made a mistake.Move on with your life and be more careful.
2006-07-18 10:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by Maw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated on his wife with you and now he's made you out to be the bad person? He's not exactly a prince if he would do either. But what did you expect from someone who you knew to be a cheater? That he'd be a real nice guy? If he was, he wouldn't be cheating on his wife now, would he?
2006-07-18 10:37:16 · answer #6 · answered by Garfield 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was/is in the marriage with her. He is to blame if there has to be someone to blame. He's a big boy and he made a commitment. You know what you did was wrong and there is nothing you can do to change it now. Just remember always treat people the way you want to be treated. Would you like to have another woman sleeping with your husband? Not likely.
2006-07-18 10:28:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and him are the only ones that really knows what happened so I would not worry to much about what she thinks. And it sounds like he is a pig so for get about him. Move on but stay away from married men.
2006-07-18 10:20:05 · answer #8 · answered by beerfootballgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were knowingly dating a married man. You were the bad person well one of them he was the other.
2006-07-18 10:33:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dated a married man, you are a bad person....
and trust me don't blame the wife if she puts this all on you.
it's easier to blame you than to blame the man she loves
2006-07-18 10:17:03 · answer #10 · answered by Hannah L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety, wat made u date a person who is already married...there is a mistake on ur part and its like u have cheated his wife...so try to stay away from him and if possible speak with his wife and explain to her as to wat exactly happened...may be then, she wud realise that u r a nice person..never ever date a married person in life because u never know, the same thing which happened to his wife might happen to u in future if u stay with him...does that make sense to u sweety ?.....hope it does..take care and all the best for the rest of ur life...
2006-07-18 10:20:41 · answer #11 · answered by bryan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋