i have been hurt by whom i loved most n its my first love.i never thought she'll hurt me like that.how much time will it take for me to be normal.its already 3 months now n i m really alone.will i be able to keep a normal relationship with her or should i completely leave her?i just want to be healed as soon as possible.i can't bear more pain.any advice please ? i m really alone. i wish i could get a girl-friend who can fill the emptiness in my life.
2006-07-18 03:01:53 · 22 answers · asked by ravi s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we have to learn to move on you may carry this around with you your whole life its hard right now but it will get easier over time, learn from this experience
2006-07-18 03:06:17 · answer #1 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any relation is a window for happiness and sadness. you have to together get out of this. Well 3 months is indeed a long time. Leaving this girl and looking for another will never solve the problem. What you are doing is running away from the problem. If you really love that girl. Then try to understand her mental make up. Try to put your self in her shoes. And if you thing that the way she reacted is forgivable then forgive and if you think you cannot make up then talk to her. Tell her clearly that you love her but that doesn't mean that she can hurt you.May be she did it unintentionally. You have to bring it to her notice that you are upset with something.
Communication is really important.
talk and all your problems will get solved.
If she refuses to talk. Write her a letter.
It does work
Falling in love is easy. Holding on is difficult.
Love needs time and a lot of patience.
You have to work hard in love. and you have to learn to forgive. That is when you can call it a true love.
2006-07-18 03:14:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha...have faith, friend. You will be okay. There's no time limit to your feeling alone, it could be another 3 months, or another 3 days. Talk to your family & friends, they care for you and will be there to listen. Go out with your friends too, and try to just keep on living. It's the best thing you can do for yourself; it will help to move on. And before you know it, you'll have another girl in your life. It'll happen when you least expect it!
2006-07-18 03:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by plcarnrike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she hurt you, and 3 months later, you are still feeling the hurt, maybe its time to cut all ties completely and get her out of your life, so you can start over. Don't let her continue to bring you down like this. It always hurts when a relationship ends, but by holding on, it sounds like its doing you no good. Cut the ties with her, grieve, then move on and find someone who deserves you and won't hurt you.
2006-07-18 03:21:09 · answer #4 · answered by Catherine n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By getting another girlfriend cannot replace the feelings you had for your girlfriend. You need to try and get over this girl (in a healthy way) They say grieving over a loved one is just like grieving over a death. Get through your pain with the support of friends and family and go on with your life. This will pass...good luck
2006-07-18 03:09:19 · answer #5 · answered by CTMEDS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you defiently dont want to jump into a relationship with another girl. It's not fair to the girl. Healing takes time, just surround yourself with family and friends and people who make u laugh!!
2006-07-18 03:07:22 · answer #6 · answered by luvinmjc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya its hard get over a girl who you have been with for a while, but if she broke up with you, you cant do much, especially after 3 months, but once you find a girl that truly likes you and you like her, some of that emptiness will be filled
2006-07-18 03:09:14 · answer #7 · answered by james a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are alone and still with her, what's the point?? You need to get out of that depressing relationship and move on with your life. You can be happy alone. But you have to be happy with yourself before you can be happy in a relationship.
2006-07-18 03:05:17 · answer #8 · answered by jennymustafa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls don't fill the emptiness---
just say a simple God, help me get thru this and He will.
You REALLY sound desparate--don't let a girl do that to you--she was NEVER planning to hurt you , I'm sure. If the feelings are no longer there, would you want her to be lying to you??
2006-07-18 03:04:36 · answer #9 · answered by bettyboop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
regrettably, i imagine love, of any style, finally ends up hurting now and again in a courting because the sentiments in love are so severe and strong and smooth. thankfully, it is between the effective issues about love, also---the intensity, the sensitivity and the way splendidly sturdy the charm of all of that is.
2016-10-14 22:18:14 · answer #10 · answered by ikeda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One word frees us of all the weight and pain in life, that word is Love.There is some one out there that still need u if not her some so open ur eyes and look.
2006-07-18 03:11:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋