he signed these papers 15 years ago and made my mom his representive payee, when she died he signed again and made me his rep. payee. what can i do now that this woman lives in his house and is trying to take control of everything?
2006-07-18 02:35:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he legally got married then he is married. If she is just living there then he is not.
Why not call a lawyer. Usually they will have someone who will answer a few questions. Sounds like you may just have power of attorney papers for money issues only. Without knowing your situation nobody can really help you completely.
2006-07-18 02:40:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a lawyer. These papers can be thrown out of court. Make sure they are solid. If this woman is seen as his common law wife then she just might be entitled to some money.
2006-07-18 02:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by DutchApplePie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's basically giving the people he trusts most in his life power of attorney. This person typically has to be related to you through blood or marriage. Since you are his next of kin (I'm assuming), it's only right for you to have power of attorney over him. Check with a lawyer about the rules for transferring that power.
2006-07-18 02:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by MEB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who actually drew up these papers? If it was an attorney you can check with them. I believe that unless he signs over authority to this women, that the previous signed papers are still in affect.
2006-07-18 02:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by roeskats 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy girl. what does dad say? how incapable is he really? is this woman a quack? are you just being greedy? anyway she cant do anything if you are in control. but that doesnt give you the right to make them miserable.just be reasonable. karma your word for the day!
2006-07-18 02:42:21 · answer #5 · answered by mojomuppet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should take control because your father cant make decisions
who's decision it was for this woman to live there in the first place
dont alow no outsider become the ruler
2006-07-18 02:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by black hood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek professional legal assistance...he has given up certain rights as head of household...I doubt if any effort to take control of anything are legally binding.
2006-07-18 02:39:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your father is a clever guy, I did that for you well in advance before he married so that you would not have any problems in future and this is the future. Dont worry about her your being his rep is her no go area unless he changes it himself.
2006-07-18 02:40:14 · answer #8 · answered by God you are my all in all in Jesus' name 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes making good decisions then let her run it.
if he signed everything over to you then she cant really do anything. as far as the courts see it, you still have power over everything.
if u signed over consent for him to be married then hes married, if u didnt then the marriage is nulled and voided.
2006-07-18 02:49:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to court if she is making bad decisions about your father you are the one that has to make all the decisions she has no leagal right unless you give her the right to (make her the one)
2006-07-18 02:38:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋