Do u think flowers r enough??
2006-07-18 02:34:17 · 13 answers · asked by Lemi 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
but I think when u expect too much and u don't get it u will be very dissappointed
2006-07-18 02:42:53 · update #1
Flowers are fine. Spouses need to quit expecting things from the other spouse and in stead think to yourself "What can I do for my husband??" That helps keep selfishness out of your relationship.
2006-07-18 03:11:51 · answer #1 · answered by jennymustafa 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What should a husband expect on his first anniversary? It has always amazed me that anniversary's are only major events for the wife.
Flowers are always good to receive, Why not plan a very surprise evening, just let your imagination work for you...
Maybe start with a little note with a poem example, A special day will soon be here and I am thinking of what you should wear,
then maybe give him a new cologne, or a pair of skimpy briefs.
Also a note that says Our anniversary is here, and I love you with all my heart, and here's a little something to give our special day a great start, gift idea could be a nice bottle of scented bubble, another idea gift is a bottle of wine with a poem. You just may get more the flowers. I did this for an anniversary, started the notes a gifts about three days before. it was the best anniversary ever!
2006-07-18 10:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by roeskats 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on the money situation that you are in, but I think flowers are a good start. Did he take you out to dinner too? Because that would be nice. But it shouldn't matter what the gift is; the only thing that should matter is that you both love each other.
2006-07-18 09:38:24 · answer #3 · answered by heatherdrake2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what ever he is able to give you, but the both of you should plan what you'd like to do. The majority of the time it is what ever is special because most newly weds don't have a lot of money. So the both of you be creative and plan to do what you can afford. The flowers are good as an early day present.
2006-07-18 09:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by BigTyme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My co-worker just had her first anniversary, and her husband completely forgot it, and didn't get her anything. Hahaha. I think she may have reminded him, but he still didn't get her anything.
So when you think of all the guys out there like that...you should be happy with flowers! :-P
I think something special and romantic is in order, but it just depends on the guy. Don't get upset because you didn't get "enough"...just focus on how happy he makes you feel every other day.
2006-07-18 10:02:53 · answer #5 · answered by Nightwish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since my husband is in Iraq for our First Anniversary I would be happy with anything. It's the thought that counts not the gift.
2006-07-18 09:39:11 · answer #6 · answered by Aubrey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, lets look at it this way. My first anniversery is next week with my husband. We're going to the spa for a nice day of massages and relaxation. But we're both paying for it. It's HIS anniversery too! You both decided to get married so you should both get anniversery presents. It's called marriage equality.
2006-07-18 09:45:25 · answer #7 · answered by Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I know the first year is supposed to be paper (like 25th is silver, and 50th is golden). So for my first anniversary, I wrote my husband a really nice love poem and put it on really nice paper, then framed it.
2006-07-18 10:04:40 · answer #8 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had my eye on a beautiful pearl & diamond ring. That is what I would want. And you should get more than flowers. Think jewelry, perfume, etc.
2006-07-18 09:39:11 · answer #9 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's too much pressure and too many expectations on gifts. you should plan something romantic together - an outing that doesn't include gifts.
2006-07-18 09:42:08 · answer #10 · answered by gummi bear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋