I get very upset when i hear people talking about how gay men are gross. many people in my family and lesbains and i get affended by this conversation very easily. Something that makes me even more mad tho is when a guy says he likes lesbians he just doesnt like gays. Why is it that men are so afraid of gay men?
When i told my ex boyfriend my aunt was a lesbian he asked me if she ever made a move on me. what kind of question is that? I just dont get why society has made this whole thing where gay men are brushed off along with "ugly" lesbains. But the hot porn start girls that get it on is totally fine. How did this become exceptable?
2006-07-18 02:34:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think straight men have a societal standard that makes them afraid of losing their masculinity. Men having sex with other men is a threat of dominance to them and so it is seen with a sense of aversion. It is ok for it not to appeal to them, but to look at it with a sense of disgust is just wrong. I have been forced to accept straight sex my entire life and I don't view it that way.
Another theory is just very simply they know the societal taboos of it and are afraid they might like it. Let's face it, all guys like sex whether gay or straight. Maybe they are just afraid that they would get lost in the act and not care. Those who are gay know there is more to being gay than just liking to have sex with the same sex.
2006-07-18 09:30:16 · answer #1 · answered by Bob 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There was some state legislation passed about it being ok for (non-ugly, of course) lesbians in 1991 or 92 and it's just been growing ever since.
2006-07-18 02:41:36 · answer #2 · answered by bonzo the tap dancing chimp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
double standards....straight men feel "threatened" by gay men (because they are close-minded and fear what they don't undertand) but don't feel that threat from lesbians. unfortunately, this is a straight male fantasy, fueled by endless amount of porn that they love to watch...of "fake" lesbians who "let" straight men watch, and even join in. "real" lesbians aren't like that guys...quit watching so much porn! it will never happen!
2006-07-18 03:39:02 · answer #3 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because society is dominated by straight men...so seeing two girls is cool because girls are hot and two is better than one, but two guys is gross because they might have to confront homosexual tendencies of their own if they even THINK about it...
2006-07-18 02:40:13 · answer #4 · answered by musikurt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because gayo,lezbos ARE WOMEN(no matter what they WANNABE),AND THE BLADES are really MEN(DOING WHAT THEY WANT TO DO)str8 men can look at two WOMEN but not two sway guys. Neither of the two are right anyway soooo.......... Feel me?
2006-07-18 02:41:23 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
small minded people with preconceived idea
2006-07-18 03:34:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
two woman are hot. it feels good but two man that is nasty and gross. i am not gay. it dosen't work with me and to every other man except gay people. it more romantic to see to two womam togther with one man. that is haven for me
2006-07-18 04:57:50 · answer #7 · answered by WEEDG 3 · 0⤊ 5⤋