I am always in as the kids are small so are in bed by 7pm, and what bloke would want a woman with 2 kids anyway?
2006-07-18 02:13:32 · 16 answers · asked by H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Enjoy single life for a while, before you know it you will have someone.
2006-07-18 02:18:00 · answer #1 · answered by Island Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing is you have split,and thank goodness there are loads more out there.perhaps you still have feelings for him.you need to sort that out first.
there really is life after a broken marriage. your kids are small, so you must be fairly young, but what is the rush anyway?
if you do not have Friends or family to babysit so that you can get out ,then use a babysitter. that way you are paying someone trustworthy, so you won't feel guilty getting out.
your fear about having small children is probably common, but there are actually men out there who can love someone Else's children. perhaps you need to look at places where you are likely to meet them. if say you met a man who is divorced with kids,it will not put you off if he is a great person. marriage's break down, but if you look around there are lots of people who are also looking for the same thing as you. don't give up hope.
2006-07-18 09:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by saywot? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not hard to meet anyone after splitting with your husband you just cant date anyone you have to be aware of what you and your husband seperated for and try not to look for that same qualities in the next man. There are men out there who would love to spend time with you and your children you just have to look in the right places not anywhere like a club because he will not take you serious and you will have to remember that if you met him at the club he probably goes there alot and he will continue to go. Most people go to the club to find someone that they can just be with for a night of fun they are not looking for a relationship.
Just make sure that when you decide to have a relationship with someone that you let them know there are kids involved and dont bring them around your kids until you know that they are ready for the simple facts of attachment issues. You dont want your kids to get attached to someone and they dont stay in the picture that long cause there will always be questions and you may not be ready to answer that.
Just be patient and dont rush into anything and someone will come your way
2006-07-18 09:25:39 · answer #3 · answered by mrs.tinsley_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any man will put up with a woman with two kids provided he cares. I would put up with a woman with FIVE if I loved her !!! Having been married for years, you have returned to the market place, so to speak. You have an OBLIGATION to try to be happy again. Go go out there and be happy again !! There is always a guy for every female. But has got to see you first, LOL !!! After my last break up I did not want women anymore PERIOD. Had enough of them... then, after about EIGHT months hmmmmm... something appeared to be seriously missing... when I met this oriental beauty... my jaws dropped once again.... I walked up to her (something I just don't do) but she was glad I did... today we have a beautiful boy.... ahhh and the oriental girl who is my wife today (she was 24 at the time) already had little girl of 3 who is today my DAUGHTER and has my surname as her surname. So don't despair... it wastes valuable energy.. a waste... when the guy for you is out there searching for you too.
2006-07-18 09:28:31 · answer #4 · answered by RED-CHROME 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is easier said than done, but just be patient. Adjust to YOUR and your childrens new life. Just don't get discouraged. Go and buy a couple new outfits, or get your hair done, do something for yourself. Take care of YOU right now and be patient. You WILL find someone or someone will find you. I have 2 kids also. But who 30 and over doesn't these days. Don't think it's just women who are single parents. Look up single parents you'll see. Take a breather, gather your thoughts, and take your time. Trust me, it will happen.
2006-07-18 09:23:33 · answer #5 · answered by liljewel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u'd b surprised! i was on my own with 2 kids, drank a bottle ov vodka every night wen the kids were in bed. then i met sum1 in a pub i had never been in. he got me off the vodka and we've been 2gether 8 n half yrs! just go 2 different places, goin 2 the same place time after time won't do it.....good luck.
2006-07-18 09:21:34 · answer #6 · answered by mishnbong 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Someone will come around one day. If you want time to yourself and go out, ask grandparents to watch the kids, or find a babysitter.
2006-07-18 09:16:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you not get a baby sitter or does your husband have the kids for a weekend?if he does or you can get a baby sitter get your glad rags on and of you go.failing that if u want a private chat u can e mail lol.
2006-07-18 11:54:17 · answer #8 · answered by irlamboyo1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a baby sitter. go out with friends. take a class.
involve your self in something fun like a sport or a hobby.
Work out at the gym get in shape.
you have to be interested in your self for some one to take an interest in you.
2006-07-18 09:16:51 · answer #9 · answered by a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey you can find someone,i did after leaving my husband,and i have a kid.so it is possible,first you have to find someone with kids or wants kids,or he likes kids.you can find someone,try to get a babtsitter one night a week and go out and have fun.good luck
2006-07-18 09:21:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋