I feel my self in tension.My husband neither listen me nor love me.He always used to dicourage me.I want to do a something in my life to make myself busy.but he never agree with me.
2006-07-18 00:48:52 · 14 answers · asked by Sapna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
a child is not the answer to this lost feeling you are experiencing.
a child will only further complicate your situation. if you only married to have a child, and ther is no real love, then your marriage was doomed to fail from day one.
just because you are married doesnt mean he owns you. if you find something you like to do , do it, its for you not him. Right?
you are unhappy because you are trying to please him and are not taking time to care for yourself. you cant be loved or love someone if you dont love YOU first...
2006-07-18 00:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet you were not even happy before you got married. Do the unborn children a favor and do not have them. They are not something to entertain you or keep you busy. How would anybody like to be a baby born to a woman like you and a man like your husband? If he does not love you then get out. Read the ads in the newspaper and find a job as a housekeeper or washing dishes in a restaurant (or a babysitter-and find out what raising children is all about!) If you have a job and a real life you will see that you can have friends and people who like you for yourself. Life is really too short to waste it being a loser. BE A WINNER!! This is your time-spend it so you have some nice memories later!!
2006-07-18 01:30:59 · answer #2 · answered by NANCY K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What made you marry him in the first place? How could he change that much in less than one year? Adding a baby to the mix may make your situation even worse. You are looking for something more for yourself becauses your married life isn't satisfying you. Look elsewhere besides a child first. Do you need to get out of this marriage? Maybe you need to get a job. Go to school. You don't always have to be in agreement with each other. Do what you need to for yourself.
2006-07-18 00:59:42 · answer #3 · answered by viclyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your marriage is unhappy why do you want to stay stuck in it? If you hang around someone who discourages you, your life will be full of misery and unhappy. Leave the idiot he doesn't deserve you. If you get a child, what makes you think he will change?
2006-07-18 01:15:39 · answer #4 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a good thing you don't have any children with this man, it would make much easier for you to get rid of him. If you are truly unhappy in your marriage you could possibly seek counseling or leave him
2006-07-18 02:21:28 · answer #5 · answered by Ebonee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then, only you can decide what it is that you want. Do you want to stay in this marriage that you are not happy in??? Do you want to stay in a marriage where your husband won't let you do what you want??? You have some choices to make. Take care.
2006-07-18 00:53:26 · answer #6 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a hard look at your life and if you want to move on do it now before you have kids,life is short so don't waste it!!
2006-07-18 00:54:32 · answer #7 · answered by airportfireman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be getting away from him and thanking my lucky stars that I don't have any of his children to keep in contact with him.
2006-07-18 00:54:55 · answer #8 · answered by sarahjane1973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why married then? but before you get too angry, sit down and think carefully about your husband problem first then think about your own problem.
2006-07-18 00:57:34 · answer #9 · answered by Albert 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you a mail order bride
2006-07-18 00:51:11 · answer #10 · answered by san_ann68 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋