My boyfriend asked me when i met him to not be friends with this girl and i agreed. Then she moved in with us. The only two people i saw were her and him. When he wasnt around she was. And we became friends. I know that I shouldnt have became friends with her but i was living with her. It was kind of hard. Now he wants to end it all because im friends with her.we have been to gether for 4 months. we have talked about this before and she has be the source of many arguments. I told him he is rude because he can live with someone and not talk to them. i just cant do that and he just dosent understand. He said "it's her or me". and i just dont see it that way. Why cant he just let me be friends with who i want. Is he being an jerk or am i to blame....I already asked all my friends and they didnt help now i need someone i dont know to help me.....
2006-07-18 00:42:02 · 6 answers · asked by Dancer in the Dark 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He has issues.
He is probably sleepig with her on the side and doesn't want you to be friends with her unless you find out. Any boyfriend who tells you who you can and can not be friends with is CONTROLLING and this si NOT a show of love, this is a BIG RED FLAG that this is not a good relationship. DUMP him and find someone who lets you pick your own friends.
Face it, he is SLEEPING WITH HER, and he ddn't want you to find out. This guy is a jerk and you can find better.
2006-07-18 00:46:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course its not a bad thing.
more like a sensitive issue.
There are people who simply drift along, searching for somewhere they belong to in this world. Looking for a place to call their own, they want to know where they stand in life. Years go by, but the answers might still be unknown to them, even til their very last breath on their deathbeds. Maybe that's what this journey called life is all about.
But living life is never a waste. When we have somebody to love and something to hope for, we learn to embrace the true beauty of life. Cherish every moment of your life because once it's gone, it will never come back. Sometimes you miss it so badly that it hurts inside.
2006-07-18 07:50:54 · answer #2 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't surrender to your boyfriend any control over your life! You should be able to be friends with anyone you like, end of story. If he has a problem, he can move out, there's plenty of other guys you can date. PLENTY.
2006-07-18 07:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by sarahjane1973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something strange going on here. He should never have asked you not to become friends with this girl. Who the hell does he think he is anyway. I suggest that you girls stay friends and boot him out the door.
2006-07-18 07:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he did not like this girl then why in the world did he let her move in with you two.. that makes no sense.. what is his reasoning for not wanting you to be friends with her... if she is ok and he is just trying to make you not have friends you do not want to marry or continue to live with someone that wants to rule your life.. but if you love him it is going to be hard to do that.. i think he is ridiculous to let her live with you all and him not want you to be friends with her.. i cannot live with someone and not be friends with them.. i do not allow people in my house that i do not like or their lifestyle... something is really wrong somewhere..i hope the best for you whatever decison you end up making...
2006-07-18 07:51:14 · answer #5 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is trying to pick your Friends for you and control your life which is wrong tell him to hit the road
2006-07-18 07:47:13 · answer #6 · answered by Neil G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋