your hadn't seen members of your family which you were close to for a long time, and your mum had stopped you from contacting them. I've recently got in contact with them, and mum is stopping me from going out anywhere on case i try to see them, contact them. THEY HAVE DONE NOTHING WRONG! She keeps me indoors and looking after my brother whilst she's at work in order to keep our house.
Is it selfish if i move away with the family i have missed for such a long time?
please answer and tell me what you would do in my situation!
thank you
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i am 16, and i had problems with my dad, he sent me a letter giving details on how was going to commit suicide. he's alright now and is a councillor. the family that i want to move with is my my aunty, they have said that it is fine.
My brother is only my half brother and not related to the family that i would like to move to.
2006-07-18 00:35:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i do not think it is wrong that you want to see your other family members.. but at the age of 16 you are suppose to still be listening to your mother.. and i do not think it is a good idea to run away or go against her wishes.. i would write to my family and not let my mom even know about it.. but i know this is hard on you.. try finishing school and get out on your own and then you can see who you want.. it is hard to make it in this world so you need to get your diploma just in case you find you will have to work and support yourself...try enjoying things that you are suppose to be enjoying.. my grandaughter called me a few weeks back wanting to know if i knew how to get ahold of her dad...she loves her dad but i do not even know where my oldest son is.. she will love him no matter what, but we have not seen him for a couple years.. and i know when she gets old enough she will go hunt down her dad...my son and her mother were never married but his daughter means the world to him.. but she got married and the husband she married basically runs the house now so my grandaughter does not get to go visit her dad like she use to get to do...it is hard on children like this...
2006-07-18 00:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by sanangel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the situation. From you mothers point of view she could have her own problems with your aunt or something of the sort she would know better because she has been around mch longer. On the other hand she should let you know the exact reason unless she feels you are not old enough or whatever her reasons are would break your heart. Think about it real hard your mother must love you as she does not want you to get hurt..
2006-07-18 00:53:53 · answer #2 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately your only 16 and I dont see your mum allowing you to move out. Obviosuly your mum had a falling out with these family members that she doesnt want you to be involved with. This is wrong on her part and she is only creating problems between you and her with her selfishness.
2006-07-18 00:39:01 · answer #3 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is, but you may find it hard being only 16
2006-07-18 00:38:22 · answer #4 · answered by REAPER_ENTERPRISES 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋