Trying to be polite, we all met at my gf's brother's house ONE time. The x flirted her *** off with my girl. I was livid! But she refuses to see that this girl still wants her. She even called Saturday night and wanted my gf to come meet her cause she was in the area. No she didn't go. Then she called the next night to tell her she was back home. Ok, WHY are you reporting to MY gf, your EX gf? I just can't get my gf to see that this ***** wants more than friendship. I've got a few years on my gf and I know people just a little better than she does. It doesn't matter that they were friends BEFORE they hooked up. The FACT is that she's still your EXGIRLFRIEND!! What should I do? Should I be pissed, cause I am. I'm steaming!! My girl and I are supposed to get married, but I'm not marrying her AND her ex!!
2006-07-18 00:29:34 · 7 answers · asked by carmel361310 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
People say they 'find' love, as if it were an object hidden by a rock. But love takes many forms, and it is never the same for any man and woman. What people find then is a certain love.
Love, like rain, can nourish from above, drenching couples with a soaking joy. But sometimes, under the angry heat of life, love dries on the surface and must nourish from below, tending to its roots, keeping itself alive.
Lost love is still love. It takes a different form, that's all. You can't see their smile or bring them food or tousle their hair or move them around a dance floor. But when those senses weaken, another heightens. Memory. Memory becomes your partner. You nurture it. You hold it. You dance with it.
yes u shd be piss off.....and u shd confess ur jealousy to ur gf.
she will noe u care and that's all it matters.
2006-07-18 00:34:02 · answer #1 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
should you be pissed? - if that is the way you feel than, yes!
personally i think that if you love this women, and it seems to me like you really do, and if you're at the stage in your relationship that you're considering marriage than you should sit down with her (not at home - go out on a picknik or somthin', that way things should stay reletivly calmer) and speak your feelings over with her.
there are two books i recomend you read: "getting the love you want- a guide for couples" byharville hendrix
and "ten minutes a day to a better marriage" - by meir wickller
2006-07-18 00:39:12 · answer #2 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she cant leave the ex in the past I wouldnt commit to a future with her.
2006-07-18 00:33:19 · answer #3 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's the one that's going to have to see this, and u can't make that happen yourself. trust ur gf, she will see what's going on. it's just going to take some time
2006-07-18 00:36:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So...don't marry her.....until she's sure that is what she wants....don't do it. No, you don't have a right to be pissed....she has a right to be forgiving and be friends w/ her ex if that's what she chooses......I would leave you simply b/c of your jealousy.....
2006-07-18 00:34:38 · answer #5 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is the whole thing. without trust you have nothing.
2006-07-18 00:32:56 · answer #6 · answered by godiggity203 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest and talk to her abt it tell her how u feel if she respects u then she will solve it!
2006-07-18 00:34:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋