My family is in alot of despair. Hubby got disabled, I have own stuff to deal with. Anyway, I may get a job doing phone sex. How would you handle either giving the news or getting it
2006-07-18 00:08:45 · 18 answers · asked by broncos2006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
HEY DAVES WIFE. DONT JUDGE TILL YOU WALK IN ANOTHERS SHOE. BY MY OWN STUFF, I WAS TALKING ABOUT MY OWN DISABILITY. I HAVE SUPPORTED HIM,,,you know, I dont want to waste my time talking to another idiot.
2006-07-18 13:36:53 · update #1
if its putting food on the table, it should not be a problem
2006-07-18 00:11:22 · answer #1 · answered by kaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband will be jealous but it will also help pay the bills. No one has to know who you are, so maybe if he just listened in on the call, say sat in the room with you he wouldn't be too bad off. For you just make sure that this is something that you can handle as well. Can be a little stressfull!
2006-07-18 00:51:33 · answer #2 · answered by Carrie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are a truly sick person and think that you would enjoy this kind of work, why couldn't you find something else to do? Surely any job would be better than this one. If you have children, how would you explain this to them or feel if they ever found out. Respect yourself. Just being poor shouldn't go hand in hand with being immoral.
2006-07-18 01:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're weak. Your husband is disabled and you have your own stuff to deal with, get a life. Yeah, phone sex sounds about right for someone with your morals. Dumb ***.
2006-07-18 00:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by ticklefoot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not convinced that the situation is that bad. The fact that ur husband got disabled is not enough for you to go into what will hurt him. You may lose him altogether.
Think about more proper thing to do.
2006-07-18 00:15:58 · answer #5 · answered by Sage_Learner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have nothing against women doing that for family's sake. We have our own freedom and we are responsible for our actions done. But, to answer your question, i would get another type of job that can make me stay at home and still attend to my husband's needs like being a nanny but they have to bring their kids at my own place and pick them up too.that way i dont have to leave the house and leave my husband whom i truly love so much.
2006-07-18 00:24:20 · answer #6 · answered by kris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giving or getting the News to who ? on the phone sex ?
2006-07-18 00:11:10 · answer #7 · answered by MoMoney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rent and watch Spike Lee's movie "Girl 6." When it ends, stand up and say, "Alrighty! The training video looks easy enough. I think I can do it. Then go pick up the phone, dial some digits and say, okay, send the kit." Smile at your husband and say "See, I told you, everythings gonna be fiiiiiiine!" Oh, no problem. Thank me later, love.
2006-07-18 00:20:48 · answer #8 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If thats all you are qualified to do, then dont worry about it. Dont tell your family your personal financial business. If they pry, tell the you just answer phones. Its no one's business how you pay your bills except for you and your husband.
2006-07-18 00:11:24 · answer #9 · answered by sahel578 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion, i'd give the news straight up. Phone sex is discreet. noone will know it was you (unless you use your real name, which would be stupid to do anyway) so its not really something to get upset about.
2006-07-18 00:11:00 · answer #10 · answered by goback_to_sleep 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i beleave you have to do what you have too to get bye and i would just tell them out right you are only trying to support your family so go ahead its not a bad thing its work and thats all you got to tell them its just money.
2006-07-18 00:23:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋