or still waiting for the dream 2 come true
2006-07-18 00:04:08 · 19 answers · asked by indian beauty 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why should we limit the amount of love we can hold in our souls. I should've never gotten married. Thought it was what I wanted at the time, and I have a beautiful child. I wish I would have found someone open to having an open marriage. It won't matter how much time you get to know each other, you can never be 100% sure on anyone at anytime. People change, needs change, goals change. Some people can do it and I still stand by my man, but our dire situation has changed us and our lives drastically. I hope you choose the right road. There is this saying "Sometimes when almost everything is wrong, one thing is so right you would do it all again." Alice Randall author.
2006-07-18 00:22:16 · answer #1 · answered by broncos2006 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, Beauty--yes I did. My wife and I celebrated 30 years of marriage this past April. As I consider the question, I believe one's answer could be a different one based on the time period when it is asked.
Marriage flourishes or withers based on the efforts both partners put forth to make it work. Little or no effort can turn the "dream" to a nightmare.
In my personal experience, an judging from the collective experiences of many of my friends, I think many people somehow believe in the fairy tale romance as they approach marriage. Many believe that the fairy tale marriage can continue on autopilot down life's highway. This being the case, life's little detours will dash the dream if both partners do not work together to navigate back to the high road together.
Here is what I have learned through trial and error.
1. Respect one another as individual beings with separate and sometimes conflicting needs and wants.
2. Seek to fulfill the needs of the partner and show the love that you yourself want.
3. Be the person you want your partner to see you as.
4. Realize that all have faults.
2006-07-18 01:03:39 · answer #2 · answered by goldenbear19750000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I have not married the right person. V R entirely different. Going opposite direction. Talk openly all your ways and means of life before engaging 2 the partener. Let your family allow u 2 study the other family and vice versa. Do not agree blindly to an unknown person, with out proper discussion. Collect information from Office, friends, neighbours before U enter in to the engagement. Check the standard of living of the other person. It shoul be equal or somewhat nearby 2 U.
2006-07-18 00:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by Kumaran M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I know I have. Even though sometimes it gets hard, I only agreed to marry my guy because ALL signs pointed extremely to him being the one made for me. God showed us in very special and sometimes peculiar ways, knowing that we'd both been hurt in the past and had a tendency to give up on "less than sure" things. For example, our palms have the same exact lines on them. We met at a club formed by our church...now we live states away. Sometimes I want to choke him, but communication is so wonderful...I tell him and hours later the feeling disippates. My dreams have most definetly come true!
2006-07-18 00:24:24 · answer #4 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i have never married the right person.. and i wish the dream man would come but i am about to give up on that idea too.. they are out there i guess but i have been through some abusive marriages and it is going to be hard for me to commit now because i am afraid to even meet a man alone anymore.. and girlfriends are nice about helping me meet people. i am not ugly or fat but i think they can tell i have been hurt and abused to much.. so and when i do like someone they have wanted someone to go away with them and i can not do that...
2006-07-18 00:10:44 · answer #5 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married the girl of my dreams 32 years ago, when I was 20. She is the best person I have ever met.
2006-07-18 02:19:22 · answer #6 · answered by Big mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt like I was. but after 14 years she had an affair. So yes you can feel like you married the right person. Just hope the other person feels the same way as you do.
2006-07-18 00:10:50 · answer #7 · answered by christsluv4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
still waiting for the dream to come true
2006-07-18 00:10:34 · answer #8 · answered by Prisca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriages are made in heaven. I think 75% feel to married the right person, eventhough, it will not come up, to change the mind set and adjust for the sake of family and donot think other side.
2006-07-18 02:22:13 · answer #9 · answered by Somi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that my husband and I were completely destined to be married. There were too many coincidences that we discovered after we were married. God apparently had a plan for us. I am convinced I married the right person. There will never be anyone who fits in my life like he does.
We are not perfect, but trust me it was meant to be.
2006-07-18 00:40:03 · answer #10 · answered by ticklefoot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋