2006-07-17 23:25:08 · 23 answers · asked by runninfool 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It would probably be more fair to the other person if you sort out your feelings for your ex first. After all, he or she can become attached to you and it wouldn't be fair when you know you aren't emotionally available.
2006-07-17 23:28:01 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, NO, NO!!! If you're gonna date while still have feelings for your ex, it's gonna spell disaster. Let me break it down for you. Having feelings for ex and seeing other guys is your way of imagining that you are still with your ex. You might not see it as this because you are doing it subconciously. When you are a couple of days, weeks or months into the new relationship you will come to your senses that you don't have any feelings for this person. So in order to save any heartache, don't date untill you have completely gotton over your ex. Goodluck as this won't be an easy task. If you should need any advice, holla at me. Be glad to help!
2006-07-17 23:30:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about this. Do you really believe that is fair to the other person? You really need to resolve your feelings for the ex before you drag someone else into the situation. Just stop for a few moments and put yourself into the other person's shoes. How would you feel if the positions were switched?
2006-07-17 23:28:33 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, in the back of our minds we all carry some feelings for people that we were involved with. If the relationship has good memories with it then it would be only natural to have feelings for your ex, this should not prevent you from living your life and moving on.
2006-07-17 23:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by thomastl614 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been in this type of situation. i chose not to date anyone because i didn't think it would be fair for me to still have feelings for someone else, but pretend to care about the new person just as much.
others, however, may see it as a way to get over their ex.
2006-07-17 23:29:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. you still have unresolved feelings that only you can sort out. it would be unfair to the person you're attempting to please because you'd be doing things the way you would while you were with the previous girlfriend and your current girlfriend wont understand why. rather wait a while, talk to someone who understands both points of view and only then can you build the bridge and get over it. besides it really isn't nice to go out with some one who's constantly thinking and talking to and about someone else and how they would have done things.
Two months alone has never hurt anyone. find yourself first. then find someone to love.
2006-07-17 23:34:03 · answer #6 · answered by crispysennie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh duh!! Yea its ok thats the only way you can probably move on and decide whether or not your ex was even worth the time you gave him. You have the right to love again just as he. And believe me he won't let his feelings for you interfere with him dating someone else.
2006-07-17 23:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Tia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is not very good. if u still have feeling for your ex, that means you still love him/her. if u date someone else within these times, u'll make a big mess in your life easily.
2006-07-17 23:29:11 · answer #8 · answered by LGG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not really as your new date might find out and then where will you be, you should never start a new relationship on the rebound it`s not fare on anyone because someone always get`s hurt
2006-07-17 23:30:36 · answer #9 · answered by madge 51 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you can date someone else even if u still hold feelings for your ex,,, and you'll forget about him with time
2006-07-17 23:31:08 · answer #10 · answered by Some 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋