2006-07-17 23:21:10 · 14 answers · asked by shallu 2 in Local Businesses ➔ India ➔ Delhi or NCR
it is the "Love" after marriage which is most important, whether it is love marriage or arrange marriage.
2006-07-18 08:35:17 · answer #1 · answered by helpaneed 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
There is a saying:
If LOVE is blind than MARRIAGE is the real eye opener.
What do you get from that?
That it is said for LOVE MARRIAGE only, because, generally, the charm and affection you have while courting, it fades away as soon as you realise that it is going to be lifelong.
Of course, all Love Marriages are not problematic, but majority of them are.
I am for Arranged Marriage, whereby you learn to know the person, while you are committed to them.
2006-07-19 01:42:56 · answer #2 · answered by GS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it definitely depends on your personal beliefs and your culture. Personally, I think two people should only marry if they love each and are willing to spend the rest of their lives together in wedded bliss. However, many people I know (my parents and other people of their generation) had partially or completely arranged marriages, and they work out fine.
2006-07-18 06:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by pdate07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arranged : Time-tested, proven, experienced, widely accepted and comes with life-long guarantee, no tensions before and after. Comes with free after-sales service (by elders in the family).
*Conditions apply *
1.Adjustability to In-Laws if you are a girl
2.Subject to knowing your spouse very well before marriage. Date him/her to know well.
3. Compatibility to be seen horoscopically by family enders (this is a sure-short remedy for life-long bliss in married life)
HIGHLY RECOMMENDED FOR ALL AGES AND GENDERS
Love Marriage : Like instant coffee or medicine comes limited in a bottle with an expiry time, no guarantee/ warranty even for 12 months, no after-sales service (from elders in the family) in absence of guarantee/waranty. However replacements and refills and similar generics (feelings) but different brands are available in other bottles, polypacks and you can refill your empty bottle (heart).
NOT RECOMMENDED AT ALL UNLESS THE AGE-BAR IS A FACTOR AND ONE HAS TO COMPROMISE**
**PLEASE CONSULT YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS AND WELL WISHERS THOROUGHLY BEFORE TAKING A DECISION.
PRODUCER'S GUARANTEE:
A L L T H E B E S T F O R U S I N G
O U R P R O D U C T.
MAY GOD BLESS YOU.
2006-07-20 12:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by easyboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually marriage itself is not good.
But if you are forced to do it then I think Love Marriage is better option. Because mine is a arranged marriage.
2006-07-18 21:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love someone and he love u too and u both understand each other go for it.....never spend ur life with someone u don't know,if u r doing arrange marriage u need to really understand him and his family........love is very imp in everybody's life
2006-07-18 06:36:51 · answer #6 · answered by ali h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I know for many people sound stupid
but I believe marriage is love match.
Arrange marriage to me sound like you force
someone to merry you and that is bad because
soon or later you going to pay the consequence.
words of experience;-)
2006-07-18 06:35:49 · answer #7 · answered by why? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always arranged marriage.
Atleast you can blame some one.
In love marriage you can not
2006-07-18 06:25:24 · answer #8 · answered by geekay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both have equal chance of success. You fall in love to marry or marry to fall in love? Answer now.
2006-07-19 09:08:05 · answer #9 · answered by oohayjaipur 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK SOMEBODY TO ARRANGE FOR YOU TO BE IN LOVE
THEN MARRY
2006-07-19 07:36:17 · answer #10 · answered by doc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋