Most of man have more than one girl in their life under the name of love but even after they are not satisfied with all them and they looked for new ones always....why it is so .... physical attraction or true love or something else it is....ans plz
2006-07-17 23:15:16 · 12 answers · asked by Vinod B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hi ! physical attractions play the initial part but then later we all have to learn to choose to love a person or not or move on cos there is no compatibility.
Which of cos means this: we can fall in love over and over again cos the feeling of falling in love with someone or something is totally 100% different from that of loving someone. Loving someone is unconditional, e.g. parents loving their children, and perhaps continue to love someone when they show their ugly traits that you do not like!
Falling in love is instantaneous like when you buy a puppy and first caught its eyes and fall in love with it, that kind of feeling. So I believe throughout a lifetime, we could all possibly fall in love more than once if we heal and choose to love wholeheartedly and genuinuely again.
But loving someone is REAL HARD WORK. It takes courage to love someone unconditionally and you can only give and hope that your love that you give is returned! It takes everyone to learn to love, it's not easy. It's not easy for all of us. We are all the same, all wanting to be loved and please love back!
Real True love endures forever whereas the feeling of being in love fades over time.
So I am saying, Mature men will do the same as mature women.
You get what you give and you get what you are looking for!
If you are looking for boys, you get boys.
If you look for mature loving men, you get mature loving men!
I hope my analysis make senses & helps. Cheers.
I believe , Love is what makes the world goes round.
So, seize the chance to say "I love you" to your loved ones today!
2006-07-18 00:21:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be happy to have one love, but women play too many games. I've known my current gf for about two months... Saturday evening we went out, and we got really close. Then all of the sudden she pushed me away. I don't know why ... we were just kissing... and they were good kisses... then blam... door shut... Now, I'm wondering... hmm did I do something wrong... I wasn't touching anything I shouldn't have been. Women try to take things too slow thinking if he loves me he'll wait. All that really does is create confusion because when you keep getting pushed away... eventually you get tired of getting pushed... and usually there aren't two girls ... it's just you're not considered the girl anymore.. and we've moved on and just didn't tell you cuz we didn't give a rat's you know what... Personally I'd much prefer to have just someone who could live in the moment. Someone who could go out and not mind me kissing them or putting my arm around them or holding hands. I'm not saying to a smothering type of smoochy smoochy..... but just good ol fun. Besides why do guys always have to be the bad ones. I've been cheated on before, and I've never personally cheated on anyone. I've moved on... which is what I might do in this situation too, but I have never had sex with one girl then with another the next then back to the first girl another night after that unlike one of my ex's.
this isn't directed to you personally, but to all women who think men are scum and play these types of games.... beware we don't want to be pushed around forever, so if you think your man is not satisfied, think about what signals you are sending him.
2006-07-18 06:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by heykidddj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men are too immature and are not in love with the person they are with. Some are highly sexual and have to have various partners.
There are men who are satisfied. You have to wait until you get one of them. A lot of women think they can make a bad man stop cheating but they can't. He will stop when he is ready and mature.
2006-07-18 06:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It comes down to separating men from boys. You are describing boys. Men are more secure creatures who have functioning minds. They consider options before making choices.
Boys, on the other hand, are impulsive. They choose things that are shiny and pretty, but when that thing gets old, their attention turns elsewhere. It isn't until boys become men that they learn that women aren't merchandise that can be returned without a receipt.
2006-07-18 06:21:13 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every person need a kind of satisfaction. He tries each & everythng t get satisfy. It's not limited upto woman/girls..it's in every field, u just name it.
He's after all this just to make him satisfy, this is not true love or something else.
2006-07-18 06:21:50 · answer #5 · answered by Aum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are hanging with the wrong man/men....most that are mature enough to have a relationship, are very pleased for the one good love.....the key word here is MATURE
2006-07-18 06:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sociology my dear men want to spread thier seed to as wide a gene pool as possible women want stability. therfore women trade sex and acess for a man to spread his genes in return for him providing stability and assets
2006-07-18 06:20:49 · answer #7 · answered by stratisnj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it is biological, men seek to impregnate as many women as possible in order that their genes will be passed on.
2006-07-18 06:20:21 · answer #8 · answered by bprice215 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instinct. Human are animals too. It's the sub-conscious urge to spread the genes.
2006-07-18 06:19:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
varies from man to man not all men are the same
2006-07-18 06:16:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋