DO YOU THINK THAT IF YOUR MARRIED ITS YOUR OBLIGATION TO PLEASE YOUR MATE IN THE BEDROOM YOU DID MARRY AND YOU DID AGREE TO BE HIS OR HERS WITHOUT CONDITIONS . DO YOU THINK THIS APLIES TO THE BED ?
2006-07-17 22:25:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wouldn't feel obligated. I would do it because I wanted to please him and in doing so, pleases me.
2006-07-17 22:29:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I always thought that when you got married to the man/ woman of your life, it wouldn't be called an obligation. Of course you should want to give this mate any satisfaction you can just to share that oh so good feeling and to WANT to give that. If you feel that you don't want that in your marriage, then it should have been spoken of way before now.
2006-07-18 05:29:34 · answer #2 · answered by Tainted_Halo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should be your pleasure, not your obligation, to please your mate. And of course there are SOME conditions; you wouldn't be expected to stay through abuse or criminal behavior. If there are some things you or your mate like or dislike, the other needs to try to work it out. You're civilized adults, not prisoners.
2006-07-18 05:35:41 · answer #3 · answered by galaxiquestar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. However, you should both put each others needs first. If there is something you're not comfortable with, the other should not press his/her wishes on you. If you're both in the mindset of pleasing the other person and putting them first, that should solve the problems and keep the man at home.
2006-07-18 05:58:02 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we have an obligation to please each other in the bedroom both husbands and wives. If one does not for some reason it is insensitive to become disappointed with them. Communicate and work things out so you are both happy and enjoy sex together.
2006-07-18 05:30:11 · answer #5 · answered by tenaciousd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love each other and have a good relationship there is no obligation on either of your part.It's called love and respect.
2006-07-18 15:36:10 · answer #6 · answered by Flaming40s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2006-07-18 05:31:14 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes your body is not your own. Neather is his. If you are not sick some kind of way then you have no excuse. You eather love each other or you dint. If you do then that is something you will look forward to. If you don't then its something you will not look forward to.
2006-07-18 05:42:31 · answer #8 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no such thing as without conditions, except slavery.
it's called respecting the other persons limits.
the marriage vows go both ways.
2006-07-18 05:31:27 · answer #9 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and grounds for divorce if they deny all sexual relations without reason. No in the sense that (girls case for example) she does not have to give you oral, anal, or anything else outside of intercourse.
2006-07-18 16:38:17 · answer #10 · answered by Carp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you don't, he/she will find someone that will......and actually, the vows most take promise to love without conditions....and through the hard times......
2006-07-18 06:30:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋