my fiancee, a new zealand citizenship, vows to go marriage with me if i come with my daughter to Auckland in September. currently, after a journey in China with her, she pulls pack her promise! in order to go and live with her, i've donated most of my daily necessaries to the charity of my community and abdicated my job in Shanghai. i also spent my savings to buy stuffs that she thought necessary in Auckland, pay fees on passport, visa etc for my daughter and i... i think what she did is a shame to my daughter and i and, is against the partnership morality. i hope to find a way out for i'm in a deep sorrow... tnx.
2006-07-17 22:12:09 · 4 answers · asked by victor1shanghai 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
perhaps there is a way that you can sue her for breech of promise. she promised to marry you, and YOU made the changes necessary to be with her, now that she has changed her mind, you have lost a great deal. perhaps legally there is a way to get from her what you have lost, or at least HALF of what you lost.
contact a lawyer...of course this will be international law..but its worth checking into.
2006-07-17 22:18:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 7⤊ 5⤋
It is sad when a relationship comes to an end. I am sorry that your relationship has ended however it is better that it has ended now and not after a diastrous marriage.
It is sad that you have given away so much to be with this woman and she has subsequently ended the relationship however you have nothing to be ashamed about neither does your daughter. I know that you may feel that what this woman has done is immoral but what you need to do is focus on the fact that you are a man of good morals and you have your daughter to care for. It will be hard to piece your life back together but you will rebuild it and be proud that you have.
Just hang in there.
2006-07-18 05:24:10 · answer #2 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must act for a disolution of the partnership because it must exist in trust and not lies. Fraud is a ground for a disolution of a partnertship.
2006-07-18 06:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by FRAGINAL, JTM 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but she doesn't deserve anything more. you have to try and get your life back and just forget about her. it is not worth it. meanwhile give all your love to your daughter.
2006-07-18 05:17:46 · answer #4 · answered by preguntona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋