We were a couple first...but then due to distance things went sour..and she lost faith in our relationship and moved on and got married. Now she again got in touch with me and professed that she wants desperately to come back. But ever since then again due to some of our mistakes things went sour again. I am also to blame but I have made just some minor mistakes...like calling up at the wrong times when her hubby was around...or throwing tantrum when I thought she gave me no attention bcoz she was too busy with hre hubby and frnds. And now again she says she wants to break up and is saying those same nasty things due to which we moved apart. And yes when she recently met me, we got physical. I feel used, and feel sick of always trying to make it work..and she always wants it to end. I want to be on the other side and have her tell me to not go and be around? She blames me for everything that goes wrong
2006-07-17 21:41:56 · 10 answers · asked by Viruosity 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
this is my thought/opinion.... any kind of distance relationship is kind of iffy... for that you need a lot of trust, and because you said that she got married after she moved away... and because she's with her husband that means she's cheating on him, to be with you, which I generally would not want to get into... trully i feel sorry for you feeling used, and you should move on, because i would never tolerate such a thing...
2006-07-17 21:46:12 · answer #1 · answered by ryanprague1 5 · 10⤊ 0⤋
In the first place if ur love is true for her then why are you trying to interfare in her personal life. If she is coming back don't let her come into your life again coz there is no point. If you do something wrong it's really painful for you for her for her hubby their families everyone. Now the decision is urs. plz don't break her family just stay away from them . It will be good for you and for them. Sorry if i was so rude. but thats all u can do.
2006-07-18 04:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am currently in the same situation as you are. However the difference is we were never married.. I am already on the other side.. he is already telling me not to go.. Why don't you try to go.. and keep things easy for a while.. She has to learn what to value.. and you also have some things to learn.. And IF SHE IS MARRIED.. i don't think it's worth it..
2006-07-18 04:47:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with everyone else, If she is Married, your more then likely just a "bit on the side", someone to go to when she is bored, If you havent got any emotional attachment with her any more, just wait a few months and she will be back again for a few weeks
2006-07-18 04:47:39 · answer #4 · answered by Dez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HElloooo..! You should move on with your life now that she is already married!! In the 1st place, its a bad idea to keep in touch unless both of you are JUST friends! Anyway if she keeps ditching you, she will definitely do it again!... Yes I can see that you still have feelings for her...Come on...its time to move on and date someone else & still single!! No point hanging on to someone who keeps dissapointing you over & over again.... Nobody to blame accept for yourselves.....
2006-07-18 04:52:55 · answer #5 · answered by Spicy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is all so screwed up.
do you think you can have a real relationship with her if she is married. what both of you are doing is wrong. she needs to solve the problems in her marriage. yes, she is using you. she's having some sort of problems with her husband and she's using you to get away from that. you need to end this and move on to someone worthy of your time, someone you have a future with.
2006-07-18 04:48:26 · answer #6 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like her husband lost his job and she needs a new source of income.
Never, NEVER forget that women want the money FIRST and will lie and cheat to get it.
2006-07-18 04:45:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's dating y ou while she's still married no it's not worth it. She can marry someone else and have you too! NOT FAIR
2006-07-18 04:44:01 · answer #8 · answered by double v 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not woth it let her go and go find someone who will give u the love and attention u deserve. she is not worth it and yes she is just using u.
2006-07-18 04:47:29 · answer #9 · answered by Carly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't committed to you, why should you commit to her? Not worth it.
2006-07-18 04:44:17 · answer #10 · answered by Bad-Bird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋