She is a divorcee and me too...! We r in contact for last 2 years, but met only 4-5 times and in presence of her parents. Last time we met in a garden, where we discussed our problems, we have faced during these years, and our future life & dreams. We talked about my Mom & my little daughter Jessica, who is now 7 years and studying in 3rd standard. Everything was perfectly O.K. till then, and now, to my surprise, she is saying - 'please marry another girl...'
2006-07-17 20:46:53 · 16 answers · asked by Patty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get a refund for the ring.
2006-07-17 20:48:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sit down some where quiet like the garden, and away from her parents and just ask her what's wrong and why she wants you to marry another woman ...If you really want her to marry you tell her !!!! If she wants to take things slow then do it if you love her do what makes her comfortable ...She may feel insecure having been married before..Let her know you understand...
2006-07-17 20:52:36 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might think it's too good to be true, that you need to convince her that you will be there for her when the other relationship failed.
If she doesn't have kids she may not want to be an instant mom, or maybe it's just too soon to ask since you haven't spent a lot of time together.
2006-07-17 20:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by double v 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you were asking how to get rid of your mentally ill wife just one month ago, I find it hard to believe you are actually divorced. Maybe she found out about your other question on Yahoo Answers and now she doesn't believe you any more.
I think you are lucky to find out about this now, instead of after you married. Based on the other questions you have asked here, maybe you have a lot to work out before you re-marry.
2006-07-17 20:56:20 · answer #4 · answered by Yarnlady_needsyarn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is probably scared to be a mum or just scarred of marriage i think that u should stick by her and just take things slow and let her to get your little girl and let her to get to know u a little more as well obviously she does not know u well enough yet
2006-07-17 20:51:04 · answer #5 · answered by monstersam01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she isnt ready for commitment...some memory is keeping her back.if u can wait,atleast find out if there is some other problem/person. be prepared to face it like a man...it cud be anything or simply she cannot believe it will last...once hurt twice shy...
2006-07-17 20:50:03 · answer #6 · answered by El-rene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say she has been through divorce b4? shes probably afraid of being hurt again, talk 2 her about why she said no.
2006-07-17 20:51:21 · answer #7 · answered by psycho_sweetie_92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is not ready to be a mom to your little girl...maybe you were better to find this out before the wedding.
2006-07-17 21:09:19 · answer #8 · answered by marilee w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Raw- She feels unworthy and thinks you will regret it.
2006-07-17 20:50:40 · answer #9 · answered by :) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She smartened up. You should do the same. Marriage is not just something to do.
2006-07-17 20:49:17 · answer #10 · answered by tenaciousd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋