he comes home late,wearing female perfum,doesnt spend weekend with me ,ful of excuses for everything.
2006-07-17 20:33:52 · 18 answers · asked by mwenda_d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you have children? My father had an affair on my mom and it was a nightmare for us kids. We were the true victims. my mom chose to rant and rave. Having the evidence she chose to fuss cuss and place fear in my and my brothers lives. Just because she wanted to hear him say I did have an affair on you. if you have evidence, tell him he has two choices, keep his family or keep his lover, NO OTHER OPTIONS!!!!!!
2006-07-17 20:43:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so if you have the evidence why are you still dealing with his bull????? You gota be strong and move on with yourself. Dont let a man hold u down, especially a guy that wants his cake and eat it too. Just play the same game hes playin! Leave his *** and show him what he once had!!!!
2006-07-17 20:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by Janelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he is giving you all the signs of a man that wants out of a relationship but only sticks around because he has become comfortable with his lifestyle.If I were in your shoes I would just pack up and leave before the heart ache becomes to much more to bear.
2006-07-17 20:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by flying_eagle_72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating on him back will do nothing but start a vicious cycle of cheating. He will do it again and again. How long u been married? Leave his A$$ for awhile and stick to it, u will see a difference in him. If not then dump the jerk.
2006-07-21 22:59:53 · answer #4 · answered by igotbuuurnd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire a spy or have some one follow him and take pictures for evidence. You can use this in a divorce trail.
2006-07-17 20:37:06 · answer #5 · answered by tenaciousd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get a private detective on his tail to take pictures, if you have photographic evidence that is pretty clear. Or get a friend who he does not know to follow him and take pictures of him.
2006-07-17 22:17:37 · answer #6 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its abvious he is cheating
so u just pack and leave or the best is to pack his stuff and kick him out tell him to go spend the night with his mistry u dun deserve this hun no one deserve to be cheated on!
2006-07-17 20:39:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it time for you to get out
2006-07-17 20:35:52 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where's the clear evidence...he might have been out buying perfume for you!
2006-07-17 20:36:47 · answer #9 · answered by guard/girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats no clear evidence until you find him with a woman on a bed naked
2006-07-17 20:51:29 · answer #10 · answered by ling a long 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋