why i have lost interest in my wife?

Question

I m 30 year old Male have 2 kids and a lovely wife but not get attract anymore towards her I need a girl who can talk , share and do sex with me.

Answer 1

why do men alway's think that the grass is greener on the other side? You're wife deserves better than you.

Answer 2

I was in the same situation 2 years ago. The reason you are not attracted to her anymore is that you both take each other for granted. The challenge has gone. The thing is though, the challenge has just changed. The challenge you both face now is how to keep your lives interesting. Take up hobbies together, have social lives together and apart but most of all talk properly to each other. I promise you that finding someone else is not the fulfilling answer you think it is. It is just starting the cycle again and in the meantime you completely screw up your kids.

Answer 3

Perhaps you need to divorce... Or change to an open marriage, that way you can both get something new... :)

With an open marriage you can give each other some freedom to look for new sex partners, without affecting the marriage and the kids...

But you have to respect each other enough to allow the other the same freedom, and depending on the age of the kids, that can be a problem...

Answer 4

I had the same problem as you. In my circumstances i married young had children at a young age and looked outside my marriage for satisfaction. In the end my faults ended up killing my husband. If you need someone to talk too, talk to your wife. Because half the problem lies with yourself. Introduce new things into your sex life. I know it's hard with two children. If you have family close by ask them to take the children for the night and take your wife out to tea. Maybe you can book a hotel for the evening. Do anything to spice up the marriage. But trust don't look outside the marriage. It doesn't work. I should know. I'm now living with guilt. That eats me away each and everytime i look into my child's eyes.

Answer 5

You should have never had the kids. Kids screw up lives. They take your money and cause all kinds of conflict and your wife will automatically become less attractive to you and every other guy out there.

You're normal.

Answer 6

a nice way to do it would be to have a threesome with a girl and your wife. That way you can have sex with someone else without feeling guilty and it should spice up your sex life when it's just you and your wife, will make you closer and she will try to impress you again.

Answer 7

since you have two children with this woman you need to do some counseling.....if you divorce she will take half of each paycheck you earn for the children and herself (which she deserves). You and your "new" woman won't have much to have fun on then........ don't go down that street...try counseling and work it out...there are other reasons why you are not attracted anymore towards her..... you need to be a man especially for those children.

Answer 8

what you need to do is the opposite of what you think. Go on a vacation/fishing trip with some MEN. Just hang out. DO stuff out there in nature. Return home, and things will be better.

Answer 9

well is ur wife attracted to u?
take ur wife out...make it a nice thoughtful caring date...like she is this new girlfriend, and keep the kids with someone so that u dont worry bout them.
everyday call her and talk about the stuff u want to, dont think ur wife aint interested, u havent treied hard enuff!

Answer 10

Its alll in your head, and since you have convinced yourself that you need a girl you will loose interest in your wife. Ask yourself why did you marry her? Why did u stay with her till you had a second child? Cheating is not on, if you tired with her divorce and move on.