I am 22 yr, ol' lad wokring for a german IT co as a programmer. I know 5 foreign langs and 6 programming langs.. but that doesnt quench my thirst... i feel scared that i would be left out cold..so i devote all my time to increase my knowledge level and do more stuff...For me there are no weeknds no hols etc..its work round the clock...I just feel so inadeqaute at times.. Even when i go to bed. i am planning my next day...But i see there is life around me.. my friends having a great time.. but.. i feel so alienated.. why cant i enjoy life like them and say 'Its party time guys..lets enjoy and the 2mrow can take care of itself'... I want help.. Thanks in advance ..
2006-07-17 20:11:04 · 4 answers · asked by AJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you are such a workaholic, you need to get out there. you have done enough and you will kill yourself that way. one day you will retire and find yourself all alone. all the work is gone and friends are those who stay. get yurself out there, make friends and have some fun
2006-07-17 20:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You first need to identiry the things you do wright and those you do wrong in your life, then start to figure out some answers or solutions for those wrong deeds, if you have a friend share him/her in your thoughts and feelings maybe he/she might find you a better solution or think with you in a loud voice as he/she will know much about you.
If you don't have one, try to find your self one who is close to you in work or living close to you or a brother/sister a relative.
The important thing is that you share everything with this friend he/she will help you get out of the closed circle. You together will be able to share things, go out together, have a meal outside door, go to cinema, do things other people as you say do.
Try it, get out of the circle.
2006-07-18 03:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by replyer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All work and no play makes 'Junge' a dull boy.
2006-07-18 03:16:11 · answer #3 · answered by Deerrunner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, do something that is really spontanious.. and like.. don't look back.. after that.. you'll have fun.. and later, you'll be thankful because you did it.. don't ever regret what you did.. and mostly what you DON'T get to do..
2006-07-18 03:18:47 · answer #4 · answered by Lina G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋