im very upset coz my bf saw me doing salsa with another guy. he is
quite
jealous types n he accepte tht but v cant get married v decided to let
everything go on the way it is. he warned me all the time tht i should
never
talk abou any guy. one day i was talkin to my some old friend in front
of my
bf,he left in anger n didnt talk to for a week. but now its been a
month he
hasnt contacted me . on seeing me dancing, he suddenly sent rude ,
taunting
n a bit abusive mesgs to me. he assumed tht the other guy is my bf. he
sent
so many mesgs n told him tht he's jus a dance partner n i appologyzed
tht if
i hurt his feelings. he then felt sorry so many times for his bad mesgs
as i
told him tht he was wrong. then next day i got his mesg tht he will get
everything investigated n if somthig is wrong, he will never contact
me. why
he felt soooooo jealous???now its been a month, he doesnt look at
me,contact
or reply any mesg. but 1 thing hapnd,tht on saturday, when i was in my
car,
i saw from far tht he is with his friend on bike, so i pretended tht i
didnt
notice he was there n crossed him but i couldmake out tht he was
gazing at
me. then i looked in my rear view mirror n saw tht he had turned his
head
back to c me going. but when i parked my car n he was crossing, he
again
proved tht he doesnt wana look at me n turned his face to the other
side.
what does all this mean??? is HE NOT INTERESTED IN ME??? HAS HE
FORGOTTEN
ME?? WILL HE NEVER CONTACT ME?? I CRY EVERYDAY COZ I MISS HIM SO MUCH.
PLZZZZZZZZZZ HELP ME TO BRING HIM BACK. SHOULD I IGNORE HIM TO GET HIM
BACK
TO NORMAL??THIS IS WHAT MY FRIEND SAYS....
2006-07-17 19:34:22 · 7 answers · asked by zeba 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
first off this guy is an idiot. just thought id say that.
he is still interested in you, but just to to make you cry. he wants you to come back to him, and change for him. thats all that he wants. the choice is yours, but i would sugest not going back to him. but that is just me.
2006-07-17 19:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by DarkStar 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is so jealous that he freaks out every time you even talk to another person tell him to get real and move on with your life. You are better off that way, if he's that bad now imagine when you are married, he probably won't let you have any friends at all and that is no way to live. He should let you do what you want to, if he loved you so much he would trust you. Jealously never leads anywhere you want to be, remember that.
2006-07-17 19:40:57 · answer #2 · answered by peach_campbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet is to search your heart and the bible. I don't know how old you are, but the bible tells us how to find the perfect mate for us. Look on www.bible.com. There you will see choices to the left. One of the choices is Bible answers. Search the Bible answers and you will find Chosing A Mate. It gives you examples of what to look for. God has a plan for your life. Don't let your life pass you by, by being ignorant (which means unknowing) of the truth. I'm 29 and I was ignorant all of my teenage years. No one ever taught me about the truths of the Bible. Also, pray! I was ignorant of this too, but now I pray almost every night. I just simply tell the Lord Jesus what is on my mind. He listens and I get immediate comfort. God is always there for us and if you pay attention when you pray, you will hear him answer you. Remember: Always start by thanking him for what he HAS done in your life. Then always ask for forgiveness for anything you've done wrong. He wants to forgive you. Then tell him your problems. When someone has not prayed in a long time or never prayed, their light gets taken away. God say's we have to chose good or evil. not both, but one. When we do bad God takes our light away. (this can send us into depression or many other things) But he always sends a messenger or sign to bring us back. Maybe this is your sign. When we pray he gives our light back. (this results in joy and peace) God will give you a peaceful feeling when you pray. I promise you that and the Bible promises you that. God's word is his promise. There is also info on how to be baptized on www.bible.com. And REMEMBER no one is perfect! That's why the Bible says to ask for forgiveness daily. (Not that we remember to do this everyday, but if you ever feel like you are lost just pray to God. He will find you and give you your light to get back home to that good feeling you had before you explored something out of his area.) God is forgiving. He will always forgive you. Please don't ever forget that! We are God's children and he loves us. Would you not forgive your son or daughter, if he/she asked for forgiveness? I would. He is the same way? You will not have any worries about your boyfriend if you do this. You will have confidence and peace of mind. God works! Also to keep your mind clear of hearing bad things that take your mind to a place you're not comfortable, try listening to christian music. there are some really good bands out there that are compatable with todays music. trust me I like a song with a good beat. God Bless
2006-07-17 20:00:15 · answer #3 · answered by bobthebuilder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is an emotion for the insercure. anyone suffering from that much jealousy must be crazy. theres more fish in the sea, my opinion is you add the bate and catch a new fish
2006-07-17 19:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by Aaron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur bf has a problem-he will always hurt u. i think u shd move on.if he doesnt trust u now,he never wil,how many explanations wil u give all ur life? jealousy is fine...but the kind he has is not normal,girl!move on....
2006-07-17 19:40:47 · answer #5 · answered by El-rene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the bum then *** move in with me and we'll do the salsa all nite long
2006-07-17 19:55:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's your first encounter with a possessive and controlling boyfriend.
2006-07-17 19:45:14 · answer #7 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋