Im confused about this guy i met...not dating. He has took me to the movies and all but there's this other girl (rumors says he likes both of us.) He talks to me alot and stuff but when she around he doesn't talk to as much also he has known her longer...do you think he likes me?
Please no rude answers.Thank-you
2006-07-17 19:25:59 · 16 answers · asked by ~kitti~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Im a VERY shy person.
Yes i know the other girl and she has a b/f...also shes a big flirt.
2006-07-17 19:44:39 · update #1
may be he tries to make you jealous by talking to the other girl... which seems that he is successful in doing so.... or might be he is waiting for you to make a move... at this moment of time, whoever makes the first move, wins him.. moreover, it might be the case that he doesn't want to reveal his relation with you... sso that the guys keep guessing about the wrong girl.....
it might also be the case that you are just a simple and honest friend of his... adn the other girl is the one he is trying to flirt around with....
hmpf... there are a lot number of reasons... that is possible... so you have to ask to the guys itself.... i have given you many instances... you have to find out the truth... i.e. by talking to him over this matter./....... no other way out girl
2006-07-17 19:31:44 · answer #1 · answered by mitr_hamesha 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think he's just a guy trying to play the field. You know, see what he likes and who he wants to date more. He probably does like you if he's taken you out to the movies and talks to you a lot, but he also might like the other girl too. Just give him time and let him decide who he wants to be with. Maybe you should ask him if he likes you if you don't feel like waiting. If you're too shy to ask him in person, ask him over the phone or email or text (cell).
GOOD LUCK!!
2006-07-17 19:30:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say, hey if he is acting like that when she is around, either he is having problems getting serious with you, or he is interested in her and you should not let him string you along, flirt with another guy, see how he reacts if he doesn't give you the reaction you are looking for, move on, cause you don't need to dwell on someone who is using you.
2006-07-17 19:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by nbrungardt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea im sure he likes u. he just like the other girl a little more. i think u should leave him alone b4 some1 get hurt. never date a guy that likes some1 else.... he might just have something to hide thats y he dont speak 2 u when the other girl is around.
2006-07-17 19:31:21 · answer #4 · answered by Keeta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds tricky... you must feel really weird...
Ok, what you should do is ask him out. If he says yes check if the mood of the other girl changes. If he says no, then check if the other girl is happy.
Hope this helps and Good Luck :)
2006-07-17 19:30:27 · answer #5 · answered by Lizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the information you've given, sounds like he is interested in both of you but probably more interested in the other girl. Trust your gut. It's usually right.
2006-07-17 19:28:10 · answer #6 · answered by dimples 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there is a big chance that the rumer is right so the best to do is ignorin it and stay close to him if u wnt him and gain his heart but in an honroble way if u think its not that big deal to do it u just tell him ur wondering quis and see wht he answers and make him commet with it!
2006-07-17 19:58:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god.... he likes bopth of you... when shes around of course he talks to you less because theres two people he wants to talk to. theres no rule saying a guy can like only one girl, and if he likes 2 he doesnt have to like them the same, just stop worrying about it if something happens great if it doesnt, theres 3 billion men on the planet im sure one you like will find you
2006-07-17 19:28:15 · answer #8 · answered by thenextiommi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what you've said, i think he's kind of confused to. though he likes both of you, he's trying to decide who he REALLY likes. just don't set your heart on him! just wait it out and see what happens. get him to know you just as much as he knows the other girl. if somethings met to happen between you guys, it will. :)
2006-07-17 19:31:44 · answer #9 · answered by sugarandspice015 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's playing the field, making looking for booty calls?
2006-07-17 19:27:11 · answer #10 · answered by Velociraptor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋