I'm just curious. Thanks.
2006-07-17 19:21:34 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
I guess I was blessed with true love seeing as we will be celebrating our 34th wedding anniversary in September.
2006-07-17 19:26:47 · answer #1 · answered by ilse72 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I've fallen in love, been in love, and now Found a true love...
I've fallen in Romantic Love (but it was truly in hindsight a DEEP LUST) and it was BLIND!
I've been "in Love" (and it WAS NOT deep) several times and been loved back by that person in the only way they can love me back and was hurt but NEVER heartbroken because it was not enough to make the relationship grow and yet, I would not trade that experience for the world.
But the best experience for me was getting to the good part of where I am at now in my life, true love, that is where you keep the Romance burning but you are past the point where the love is NOT blind...it sees a person's faults and loves them despite them. AND this is where if things do not work out, I can get my heart...broken.
Yes, that is true love.
2006-07-20 22:42:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I've fallen in love a year ago (at the age of 23). I thought I had been in love before too, but now I know that wasn't love. It changed my whole life (for the worse LOL), and I'm very happy with her, even though it's often hard.
Is she my true love? I'm quite sure she is, but nobody can be 100% sure, of course.
2006-07-18 02:26:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, and I refuse to acknowledge any feeling that could possibly be love in the romantic sense for three reasons:
1.) Every divorced sucker in the world thought he/she was in love.
2.) I have other priorities in life than this. My priorities are my career and education.
3.) I find it almost impossible to have any kind of a relationship with the women I come into contact with because this alone appears to be their purpose in life. I simply cannot be attracted to someone who aspires to be nothing more than someone's mate.
Every woman I've dated wants marriage and kids. Every woman I've dated wants to be Suzy ******* Homemaker. It's almost like they would rather be breeding sows than people.
It's rather disgusting.
What happened to college and a career?
If I want companionship I'll buy a dog. I feel absolutely no desire to spend a ridiculous amount of time and money in pursuit of this abstract concept called "love". To date, not a single person has been able to describe to me in intimate detail what "love" is or why I need it.
A few stupid answers to my questions have been:
"You'll just know when you've found the one."
"It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all."
I'm supposed to spend my life in pursuit of abstractions and generalities?
Have you ever just observed people and payed attention to the ridiculous amount of time they waste on this unproductive bullshit?
Get real.
2006-07-18 02:49:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not yet,i would like to believe,hope that there is true love out there somewhere i haven't seen it as far as falling in love yes i did once i tried very hard too hard and fell flat on my face and boy did it hurt it took awhile for me to get back up . if love ever comes my way again ill take it even if,cause if i turn my back on it I'll never be complete i don't want to go through this life and the next with half a soul . thanks for asking i feel better
2006-07-18 02:47:14 · answer #5 · answered by james j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fell in love many times and been in love many times, experimented with either sex a lot of things but finally found true love after marriage. (Mind you I was not in love at the time when I got married)
2006-07-18 03:33:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in love with this one guy for years! He was my boyfriend but than we broke up but were still close but I just love the way that guy makes me feel no other guy has ever made me feel that way.
2006-07-18 02:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by Ash D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-07-18 02:26:20 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Butterfly Kisses♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes so now i have a question
If you fall in love and get married when you get a divorce does that mean you can finally climb out...
2006-07-18 02:56:47 · answer #9 · answered by twistedlifesmysteries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes!!!
i'm always falling in love, but after an hour or so, i am usually way out of love again!!!
2006-07-18 02:48:37 · answer #10 · answered by bravoechofoxtrot . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋