help need to know if gay?

Question

how do u know if some1 is gay i think my cuzin is. he acts really girly & hangs out with only girls & not in the dating way. please help i need to know.

i want to know its not like i wouldnt ignore him or love him any less just to know we have always been cool but recently he has been distant & a loner type plus wat i wrote

Answer 1

And so knowing, what business would it be of yours? Would it make him any less your cousin?

Don't fret girl, if he is and when he tells you, just you be like "So what?". That's all you have to do.

It's good that you care enough to ask but really it's down to him.

Best Wishes

Answer 2

Without repeating what has already been said. 'Gay' is not a label to wear, it is more about sexuality. Your cousin may display effeminate characteristics - that doesn't make him gay. The only way to truly find out is to talk to him and really it's better for him to talk to you.

Answer 3

There is no way to "tell" unless you ask or he tells you. There are many stereotypical behaviors and traits that people assume are sure-fire ways of determining a person's sexuality but they're not because everyone is different and we all behave in different ways for different reasons.

Answer 4

Does is really matter? Would it change anything?
If he wants to tell you, he will. In the meantime, don't worry about it, because he is your cousin and it shouldn't make a difference to you.

Answer 5

if it is a boy tight pants the way they talk and walk and for girls they always hang around girls

Answer 6

why is it your ******* business
if hes gay then let him be
if he not then great

Answer 7

It's non of your business...until he decides that it is.