As much as I can, I try not to hold grudges. They just weigh me down. Forgiving may be a blow to my pride at times but I rather have that than carry grudges for a long time. Besides, it always do feel good when I am at peace with myself and with all the people close to me. :)
2006-07-17 19:21:51
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answered by Jo Ann 6
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Holding grudges;
elusive patterns of anger,
i say elusive because everyone
is subject to having feelings hurt or worst and a grudge may
manifest and last forever or only a nano second ...
Being a species with a unique sort of awareness it may be difficult in ones life not to carry a grudge at least once, so it would seem.. Not to hold a grudge takes control or embracing
a belief system to discourage these holding blocks of memory
with negative energy, although i've read negative & positive
feelings carry the same vibration, so it appears what constitutes
the formula for operation of a feeling depends on ones state of mind ... So i'am not immuned form this behavior, i'm sure i have held a grudge at one point in my life, i try not to ........
But, i'm only human
2006-07-17 21:48:24
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answer #2
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answered by ♪σρսϟ яэχ♪ 7
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While I make an effort not to hold a grudge... I still have one or two with my ex wife...
2006-07-19 12:34:57
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answered by robertonduty 5
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No!
Holding Grudges will shorten your life span.
2006-07-19 08:21:15
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answered by Fancy You 6
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Not only do i hold them, i caress and nurture them. And mine are the best grudges of all as a result.
2006-07-17 22:13:59
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answered by missinglincoln 6
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Not only do I gold grudges, but my shoulders are full of chips.
2006-07-18 00:48:57
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answered by Jenny A 6
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YES
i hold them like a 2 year old holds there breath...the 2 year old eventually gives in...... but not me
2006-07-18 09:18:11
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answered by His 5
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love your ENEMY BUT KEEP YOUR GUN OILED ---this is the law--- dont hold a grudge but be aware of who your enemys are JFB
2006-07-17 19:26:54
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answered by JFB 3
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Hate is so ugly and unproductive.
Who has that kind of energy to waste?
Why not concentrate on things you love instead?
Don't let hate suck all your time and energy away.
2006-07-17 19:21:20
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answered by Anonymous
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not for more than 2 days...
2006-07-17 19:31:34
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answered by why do i? 6
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