No matter how happy I am she does not like him and she has never talked to him. She was told some things by another friend one she knows has lied to her before about stuff and she believed her over me. She knows I have never told her a lie!! It seems no matter what shes not happy with me or nothing in my life. I recently found out she told someone a very important thing about my relationship that I told her because she is my bestfriend. All this happen without me even knowing until I talked to her and nothing she found out was even true?? She threatened me to another friend before knowing the truth Im wondering would someone give me advice I want to do the right thing but its hard to determine whats right with everything thats happened.
2006-07-17 19:10:06 · 6 answers · asked by gottagetthroughthis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
first off i would quit calling her your best friend.... your REAL best friend would be happy for you and not jealous and doing everything in her power to break up you and your happiness. second i think its best you just stop talking with her. if she was a true friend she wouldn't be trying to hurt you like this. good luck with everything and remember you can not please everyone.
2006-07-17 19:16:06 · answer #1 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may sound weird, but a couple of years ago, i did the same thing to my best friend when she got a boyfriend. I was obviously immature then, my whole problem was that I was jealous and was trying so hard to ruin their relationship. I was nice to her face, gathered as much information that she would give me and then, go spread what she said to all of our other friends, truth is, it was pathetic, and it seems that your friend may possibly be doing the same thing because she's jealous. If this is the case, what I would do is, just stop talking to her for a while, tell her she's your friend and you don't want to lose that, but you don't want to lose your boyfriend either, she needs to understand or she was never a true friend anyway.
2006-07-18 02:24:06 · answer #2 · answered by mandy k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesnt sound like a best friend to me! To me she seems jealous of your happiness or the fact that you have a boyfriend. Stop telling her all your secrets and when she doesnt have anything nice to say about your boyfriend tell her to keep quiet because she knows nothing about your relationship. To me people who have got nothing nice to say when it comes to other people's happiness must rather keep quiet!
2006-07-18 02:22:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It almost sounds like she is jealous.Talk to her and clear the air.Find out what the problem is and then try to fix it.If this really means alot to both of you it can be fixed.If she doesn't want to work on it,then you are going to have to decide if you want to stay friends or just drift apart.
2006-07-18 03:21:37 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is JEALOUS!!!!Tell her to get her own boyfriend and Tell a bunch of lies about him... What a Biotcha!!!! If she was a true FRIEND she would stay out of your personal life unless you need her advise or something..
2006-07-18 02:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by DJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that she is jealous of you or she is mean. does she have a boyfriend?be careful. if she is your friend then she must to support and help you not to create you problems
2006-07-18 02:41:03 · answer #6 · answered by d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋