im just curious... because i think my bf is a gay..
2006-07-17 18:53:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
ask him. why be deceitful and go behind his back and try to find out. just plain say hon look i want to know if you are gay? It would probably be best to tell him that you will still care about him no matter what and want to be friends. i know your thinking if he is not it will make him mad... well if you are thinking he is... then obviously there is something you need to talk about. And if he is not... then you need to discuss what the things are that he is doing or saying that made you feel like he might have been gay. COMMUNICATION!!! The only way to have a great relationship. Good luck
2006-07-17 18:58:38 · answer #1 · answered by purple dove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest you'll know in your heart. You can tell if someone is really connecting with you in an intimate way and if they're not well at the very least the relationship ain't working. Mix that in with a bit of communication and honesty, not necessarily confronting him and making him feel cornered, but talking to him properly and trying to find out whether you guys have a relationship. The short of it is don't get to diverted by the 'gay thing' and actually get to the root of what's really going on with your relationship.
2006-07-17 19:34:54 · answer #2 · answered by waggy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget all these guys, I have your answer. Go rent a gay porno from the movie store. Pretend you're being adventurous and trying to get him hot and bothered. Get him naked. Pop in the tape and then pretend like they gave you the wrong film. While you're still in those first few seconds, before he can respond voluntarily, see if he gets wood. Guaranteed if he's a pole smoker you'll see a rise.
2006-07-25 15:14:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl if he wants to go shopping with you and wants to pick out your clothes if he uses the word Mary when speaking to another man if he snips his fingers a lot if it take him longer to get dressed than it did to rebuild after Katrina HE MIGHT BE GAY--
but the good news is -- that he will be one of the best friends you will ever have and you will remember him for the rest of your life--the best girl friend a girl could ever have-- and that my friend is a win win situation-
2006-07-17 19:07:15 · answer #4 · answered by ibelieve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you are at his house, or he is at yours, take off your blouse and bra when he isn't in the room, walk up to him move your shoulders back and forth to get things moving, if, when that is happening, he is looking into your eyes, sorry, he's gay.
or, you could ask.
2006-07-17 19:32:07 · answer #5 · answered by Norsehawk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a gay guy friend to use his 'gay-dar'. it sounds stupid, but most of them can pick up the gay vibe in a flat second. or ask him.
2006-07-17 19:23:05 · answer #6 · answered by why do i? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him. He might be gay or bi, either could lead to an interesting or fun relationship.
2006-07-17 18:58:14 · answer #7 · answered by chrissm2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if he puffs on peters, you can probably bet he's gay. At least, that would determine it clearly for me.
2006-07-17 19:05:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The easiest way to tell:
How interested is he in you?
2006-07-17 18:57:13 · answer #9 · answered by Greg P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't tell by just looking at that person.
2006-07-17 18:55:12 · answer #10 · answered by pianist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋