If u have read my other questions then u shuld know my problem well enough to answer this question for me. I have just broken up with my ex about a month ago,right? I am not healed from the way he has treated me. I doing other things to keep my mind off of things and my past. My ex from along time ago before my current ex wants to get back together. I have known and been his friend for four years and still counting. I love him and he still loves me and we both want to get back together, but I dont want to get hurt again but I know he would not hurt me because he is way different than my current ex. I just dont know what i should do. Should I be with him and be happy with him. Or wait till I feel like I am completely over my current ex. But I dont want to make him think that I dont love him or something. He is a virgin and I am not. I am willing to give up sex for him for 2 years wen he is ready,but how do I make such a hard descision.Me N my current ex do not talk at all.Any Advice?
2006-07-17 18:14:37 · 3 answers · asked by youngnready1506 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Also... I feel like if I get back with him that he will think that I still love my current ex.Or that I want to be with him.But Him and I r alot closer than my current ex.We are in the same grade and the same school.My current ex and I are not in the same grade.And I have known him longer than my current ex. And also I was going out with him for a year and some odd months b4 my current ex.
2006-07-17 18:18:18 · update #1
I do not feel the same about my current ex.We were together for a long time but during the time he was very hurtful towards me and now that I look back at it I am glad that it is over. I dont need a man to make me happy and that is what My Mom is thinking. But I love him and I have known him a lot longer. And also people always told me that if u get a new one you'll forget about the old one.Is that true?
2006-07-17 18:20:56 · update #2
Any love,relationship,family,hatred,or life lessons you want to share or any advice you want to share or any thing about my story that you want to say is okay. I could use some extra advice. And also he wants to know my answer by 6pm tomorrow so I need alot of help and advice.Thank U
2006-07-17 18:22:29 · update #3
And when I say current ex I mean recently and when I say him I mean the guy I want to get with.
2006-07-17 18:30:52 · update #4
You need some time to yourself before you make any relationship decisions. Wait until you heal from the breakup.
2006-07-17 18:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by Alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like to me that you are on the "rebound"....If your ex hurt you once before chances are that he Will do it again...good luck!
2006-07-18 01:29:47 · answer #2 · answered by brat71825 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be friends and give it time,see what happens after you deal with your emotions
2006-07-18 04:41:21 · answer #3 · answered by rosie w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋