im 16 female and ive never had a boyfriend but ive had a few flings with guys. lately ive been seeing more gay/les combos around me and it got me thinking about my preference. now when my girl friends skins accidentally touch me i feel weird. i feel different around my bffs but i dunno what it is cuz i know they look pretty and they know it too. even when i look at my on-and-off boy crushes profiles i feel like i have mixed feelings about them.
am i bi, les, straight, or just plain paranoid?
2006-07-17 18:08:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
and i feel a lil weird when they change in front of me
2006-07-17 18:09:22 · update #1
you're bi curious maybe because you haven't dated guys yet.
try not to think too much ok? ;)
goodluck!
2006-07-17 20:50:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most gay/bi people love to quickly say that you may be part of the group, but I think that your probably just going through a stage. 16 is too young to suddenly say your bi or gay since this is the first time you've had these feelings. Most of us had thoughts about our attraction to the same sex when we were as young as 12 so we've obviously had a little time to think about it. I encourage you to wait and see if these feelings continue.
2006-07-17 18:38:00 · answer #2 · answered by Liir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural to be a little curious...
I'd say give it awhile...if the attraction wears off...then you're probably straight. If you're adventurous get the chance maybe try something with a girl too see if you like it...to experiment if anything?
Just about everyone that you know your age or older is/has been curious like you are now.
Don't try to identify your sexuality until later...you have tons of time. Just try to have fun now. :]
2006-07-17 18:15:19 · answer #3 · answered by xxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to be too concerned with it. You are young, and have plenty of time to figure things out. I would suggest experimenting a little bit. Try going out with a few girls and see how it feels. Though, I wouldn't suggest going out with any of your friends. At this point in life nothing is really concrete...so just give it some time.
2006-07-17 18:22:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
almost everybody goes through these samefeelings . male or female. at the start of sexual feelings you may feel more comfortable with someone of the same sex to try things out with. ost growout of this on their own. mostly by trying it with the other sex. its mostly a mater of what you feel most omfortable with. after that its prefer. gays of both sexes can and have off and on flings with the oppisite sex. unles something really bad happened that turned them off compleatly.
2006-07-17 18:19:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe u are bi curious. i think u should do whatever u feel like; if u wanna kiss a girl then do it, maybe u wont like it or it wont feel right.
2006-07-17 18:14:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be confused.. let you heart decide.. if you are happy being with same sex.. then be it. there is nothing wrong being a lesbian or gay. what matters most is YOU ARE WHO YOU ARE and you are not hiding anything. Goodluck dear..
2006-07-17 19:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by eros 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're just finding out about yourself
2006-07-17 18:16:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋