i'm so sad all the time.i've been like this for 2 months cause of a stupid boy who really hurt me and broke my heart.I need to get over him but it's hard and I just can't.He broke up with me for his old girlfriend and he had her break me and him up.This girl cheats on him and tells everyone.He knows but he dosn't care.I need advice to get over him but i miss him so much.HELP ME!!!
2006-07-17 18:06:03 · 3 answers · asked by legs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
do you really want a wimp that makes his ex do his dirty work for him? The only thing that will help is time and friends. a new hobby cant hurt either. just remember that you WILL get over him.
2006-07-17 18:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by tajura001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tough to mend a broken heart. First off remember you aren't the problem, he is. If he can't see how truly wonderful you are, then he's not worth it. Next, you need to love yourself. You are a truly amazing person, and you need to point out to yourself just how wonderful you are. He's the one losing out not you.
Lastly, pick one night, and just cry - get all the hurt and anger out. Scream if you need to. Give yourself that one last night to be truly sad and then say to yourself - NO MORE. He's not worth you feeling like you'll never get over this. He's a jerk. The truth of the matter is it sounds like he's getting just what he deserves. He's with someone that won't cherish him the way you do. You probably have so much more to offer, don't waste it sitting at home over some guy that's not worth spit. Find something you enjoy doing and go out and do it. Spend time with friends and/or family. Don't jump into the dating scene again until your heart has healed up. You'll find out that once you love yourself, the right guy will come along. One that truly deserves someone as great as you. I know it doesn't seem like it now, but trust me they are out there. You've already said it yourself, he's a stupid boy, and guess what, there are alot of stupid boys. My mother always told me you have to kiss some frogs before you find the prince, and it's taken me a long time, and alot of truly stupid boys, but I've found one that truly appreciates me. Don't give up hope, and remember you are special, even if he's too stupid to see it.
2006-07-17 18:19:11 · answer #2 · answered by tinydancer42001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well go out and explore the world you are free, look stop doing this to yo self if she does that then he is going to get hurt and is going to wish he never hurted you.
2006-07-17 18:10:44 · answer #3 · answered by Natasha C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋