I gave my boyfriend head but there was no fluid that came out when I was doing that. When we decided to have sex, he pulled out before he cummed. But there is still precum. Since it didn't come out when I was giving head it had to come out when we were having sex. I know it hasn't been a week since I had sex and I'm not really worried. I'm just curious. I've been reading where precum can get you pregnant but some says it can't.
I don't want no smart comments saying I should know this stuff if I'm having sex. I've had many sex classes in elementary, middle, and high school. They all say you can. But I'm reading somewhere you can't.
I'm just confused.
2006-07-17 17:53:13 · 38 answers · asked by Kate 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I'm not worried that I'm pregnant. I've just been reading on this site where people argue saying you can't get pregnant from precum. It just confused me. But I figured you could get pregnant from pre ***.
I'd appreciate if people would stop calling me a whore. I'm not no 13 year old whore.
2006-07-17 18:08:28 · update #1
As you now know from reading the other messages, yes you can get pregnant using the withdrawal method. I read that between 7 and 19 percent of the people using this method get pregnant within a year.
Oral sex doesn't reduce the chance a pregnancy. At least I haven't heard of any medical studies showing it does.
As for the smart comments how about, next time tape yourself so can review your technique.
Good luck.
2006-07-17 18:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by CycloneSteve 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get pregnant from precum, some semen is excreted during pre-ejaculate - it's not very much but it's still there. The pull out method is completely unreliable, use something more effective like condoms or contraceptives. Also keep in mind that some STD's can be transmitted through oral sex, including HIV.
I believe both partners should be tested before engaging in intercourse, that way there is no question as to wether or not your partner is clean - don't just trust the other person you never know if they are lying to you.
2006-07-18 17:44:15 · answer #2 · answered by peach_campbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years, and we have had sex numerous times... i mean, i lost count at 40. we have still to this day NEVER used a condom. and almost every time, he has actually ejaculated in me. although i've had really good luck, you may not. precum can get you pregnant. there is sperm in it. when it comes to c u m, precum or anything like that, pretty much anything is possible. i'm 16 years old, so don't think i'm trying to preach to you. have fun, but try your best to be careful. i have a friend that just turned 17, and she has a baby. a lot of girls at my school have gotten pregnant anywhere from 14 up...so i know its possible. just be careful!
2006-07-17 17:59:24 · answer #3 · answered by missesxlindsayy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pull out method is not reliable -- if you want to be absolutely safe you must use a condom every time you have sex. There is a miniscule amount of sperm in pre-*** that can get someone pregnant. The chances are smaller, but the chance of pregnancy is still there. Plus, you can't always be sure that the guy is going to pull out before he starts coming.
2006-07-17 17:59:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have also noticed that even though girls can and do get pregnant from "precum" that there are some answers in this forum that say you can't. Obviously, those people who say you can't get pregnant from "precum" are either ignorant or are mean
and want some girls to get pregnant by using the pull out method.
2006-07-17 18:57:28 · answer #5 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can. My friend Tina got pregnant the very first time she had sex when she was 17. My advice: please stop being a whore. The last thing we need is another 13 year old mom. I bill for ob/gyn visits all day for pregnant girls who are too young to even get a work permit. Oh, and *** is just ***, whether it's pre-, post-, or current.
2006-07-17 18:00:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can get pregnant from precum, one of my friends was having sex with a one night stand girl, he pulled out but still got her pregnant
2006-07-17 17:56:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not sure theres always a possibility tht u can and tht u can't. when ppl ask question like these theres always older ppl sitting there judging u b/c ur a teenager having sex i asked a question regarding sex and i was confused about somethin similar and they started sayin ur too young to be having sex. well it's 2006 not the 90's. well like i said i'm not sure but u can look it up on the internet maybe. i'll try and if i find a for sure answer then i'll writ another answer or im or email u don't know
2006-07-17 18:25:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kate,
I'm sorry some people treated you rude for asking a question.
And to answer you;
YES you can become pregnant. I have a 3 year old granddaughter conceived by the usage of that birth control method.
2006-07-17 18:33:49 · answer #9 · answered by hope_help 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can get pregnant anytime, anyday with any method.
Of all the "bad" things that can come from having sex...pregnancy is the best one. The other options are STD's, HPV, AIDS.
You probably won't listen to our advice, we were young and "knew" that it wouldn't happen to us too.
But, darlin' I'm 31 with a 12 year old daughter and I "knew" it wouldn't happen to me too. ROFLMAO
Be careful with your body and your life, it's the only one you get. Start being more responsible. I don't mean that to be insulting. You know what you're doing is careless.
Good luck!
2006-07-17 18:03:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋