2006-07-17 17:43:55 · 25 answers · asked by cathy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes its fine..its good to help people :)
Whats bad in helping friends?would you mind friends helping you?
Let him help them ..it shows he is a good human..
2006-07-17 17:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by Ali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not okay. They are not together and they do not have a child together (or do they) so he doesn't have any ties to her so he shouldn't be helping her. Her parents should be helping her as much as they can and she can go get a job.
The more he help her, it is giving her a chance to coach him to get in bed together when you're not around. I wouldn't take that chance. If he chosen to continue to help her then I'd let him go. Apparently, they're not over each other yet and you do not need to be in the middle of it and/or be hurt by it when you already know what can happen.
Move on, there are other fishes in the sea that can get over their last relationship and treat you better. You will just have problems and arguements with this one.
2006-07-18 00:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by Paula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not okay if you have a problem with it. But if it is just help that he is offering then it is okay. Because you never know when you get in a financial bind who you might need. But if you have a problem then diffently it is not okay. Talk to him and tell him that you have a problem with it and why.
2006-07-18 00:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by princess4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Than have to see what is ur reason to say no;
and wwhat is the reason ur BF say yes,
in relationship communication is very important ever,
pls practice how to communicate with th eone u really luv...
2006-07-18 00:50:21 · answer #4 · answered by soulsourcel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as they arn't taking advantage of his kindness, or he doesn't have any sexual motivation for doing so, or it isn't destroying his financial situation. It's his money, not yours. I understand the concern. It might be tough to let him get used by his friends without speaking up about it.
2006-07-18 00:48:39 · answer #5 · answered by Erectoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend in need is a friend indeed.Good deed!
Written on a paper for money loan as security.
2006-07-18 00:46:32 · answer #6 · answered by Goosters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is at home early no later than 6:30pm. If he is using his money. And NEVER EVER let him go into their house alone really late in the day. (all of this is advise on how to KEEP your B/f)
2006-07-18 00:48:15 · answer #7 · answered by Donna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay. Just be sure that you know the girl and you know her financial standing and that you trust her as well.
My boyfriend once helped a mutual friend of ours. It was okay.
2006-07-18 00:46:28 · answer #8 · answered by Charmaine * 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Advice yes,cash money,no!It's okay for him to give other friends advice,but I am sure he's not in the position where he can just give/loan money to friends.IF so,then he needs to be spending that extra money on you and your dates.
2006-07-18 01:02:56 · answer #9 · answered by missyandgordon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya then so what.but there should be a limit.his 1st preference should be u.wenever u need a help he should help u also.may be he is too social n ready 2 help others.besides dat he should not do his own loss.Trust is d most imp thing in any relation so trust him once.lets see wat next.gud luck.
2006-07-18 01:08:02 · answer #10 · answered by Jaswinder k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋