I JUST LOVE HIM AND AS I TOOK HIM FOR GRANTED, I THOUGHT WE WOULD BE TOGETHER FOREVER. I DON'T KNOW HOW TO BETTER EXPRESS MY FEELINGS THAN I ALREADY HAVE, AND I'M AFRAID OF HIS ANSWER BEING IT'S OVER. IS HIS THINKING STATUS, MY PLEAS, AND OUR CRY TOGRTHER A GOOD SIGN OF RECOVERING THIS. ANYONE HAVE ANY SUGGESTIONS TO FIX A DESIRED RELATIONSHIP ? OR MY HEART?
2006-07-17 17:43:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Its not healthy to make someone your whole world. YOu should try to get out and socailize more. As for him and his thinking about things, back off give him some space. Do not beg and plead for him to come back. Show him that you can make it without him even if you dont think you can right now you really can. Dont show any signs of weakness. I know its hard, but you have to be strong at least for your own personal sanity. Also try to find a hobby or something to take your mind off things a little. Any family members you could call/hang out with?
2006-07-17 17:51:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its kinda hard to give an advise without really knowing why your BF left you. Now if you say it is because you took him for granted - there must be a much deeper problem than this. You didn't explain how you take him for granted.
He may still love you - i believe that love doesn't fade away that fast but you must 1st find out the real reason and try to come up with the right way to resolve it.
2006-07-17 17:51:11 · answer #2 · answered by Zail-Em 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A situation like this is so hard. 3 years is a long time of your life to let go of. Try to figure out if this is evactly what you want and not just what is known to you. Sometimes we hold on to things that we are comfortable with not because it is what is right but for the fear of the unknown. I am not saying that this is what is going on I just know from personal experience that this happens. Take some time and dont fight so hard. If it is meant to be and he truly wants to be with you then he will be. You cannot force anyone to see the feelings that they do not want to see. Try hard to let him know that you love him and want to stay with him but this situation is killing you. Tell him that you are going to give him some space to decide because this waiting is killing you. Reassure him that you love him and only want to keep the love that you share together but allow him space. Take this time to get to know yourself and figure out why you took him for granted. If you get a second chance then you will know what not to do in the future. Good luck.
2006-07-17 17:55:12 · answer #3 · answered by lvb524 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start over by dating and living apart for awhile. Work on You and who you really are before you make the decision of living together again.
Make some new friends. Maybe join a club or get a part time job or join a volunteer group in your area to meet new people. Share yourself mentally with others.
2006-07-17 17:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by divaterry1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder when will females ever learn that if they live with a male
without marriage they are just convenient, free, no responsibility, all they want, when ever they want SEX! And nothing else PERIOD.
They can drop you when they want to, do what they want to and the female often sits up with the child and no respect from any quarter!
Wise up ladies, do what you want to do, but when it comes to living together and he did not remotely ask you to marry him, tell him that you have Mistletoe hanging on the back of you skirt and it is Christmas!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-17 17:59:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can relate my live in gf of over 6 years just left recently.My only advice is that if its meant to be it will be.Only time will tell.There will be plenty more tears but time will heal it will get easier.If anything sit down and talk with him.P.S. when you say you took him for granted what do you mean.If you need to talk e-mail me.
2006-07-17 17:56:38 · answer #6 · answered by Sonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get friends or move back home
2006-07-17 17:49:47 · answer #7 · answered by jazz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should get friends..
2006-07-17 17:46:25 · answer #8 · answered by QT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋