what should do know. it meke very upset and crezy
2006-07-17 17:28:38 · 16 answers · asked by albergo 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Royalty
Don't worry about others in your family and elsewhere and what they think. Your love for your wife and your relationship is your own. Nobody else should judge it.
Also, remember that sex is a small part of most mariages. Whether you want to continue your mariage after what happened is for you to decide. Follow your heart. Make sure you put the problem on the table with your wife and decide together how to be on the same page for the future. Always remember that the rules are between the two of you and a lot of people have relationship outside of their marriage once and it's not the end of the world. It doesn't change the love if there is love.
2006-07-17 17:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by Tica 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me Dont Think You Are From The United States--sorry-- the my wife had sexual relation gave you away-- if everybody that knows is in your family-- why are you upset and crazy - Have a family meeting call it "whats with this ***** i married" make her go and put a chair in the middle of a circle then let every single person in your family tell her what the feel -- ACTION - REACTION-- it want fix things but i bet by the end of the night you will feel oh so good and so will your family it will bring everybody together that needs to be together -- by the way the ***** is not allow to speak- duct tape works really well if needed-- my best to you and your family
The Cajun Way/South Louisiana Style : gotta love that
2006-07-18 01:54:48 · answer #2 · answered by ibelieve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you got dis'd. Buddy, her sex thing with her brother in law wasn't about you. For the two of them, it was all about them. You were nothing in their little equation. So don't take it personally.
You can make it up to them. Ask the brother in law if it is ok if you watch him masturbate some night when he is at home alone, or if it would be ok for you and your wife both to watch. Tell him all will be forgiven if he will scream when he comes.
Seriously, you have the moral highground here. Just behave in a dignifired manner and don't be daunted by the horrible deed that was done. You may need to tell your wife to sail on down the line, a la Lionel Ritchie. Maybe all can be forgiven ... but that is totally up to you. You have decisions to make and no one can fault you or blame you for what you decide to do. Just don't let this get you down. You are the man in this equation. They are the circle-jerkers.
2006-07-18 00:37:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this the first time your wife was unfaithful?
How is it everyone in the family knows about this?
Do you love her? How long have you been married?
I know it is hard, but for better or worse try to keep your vows and forgive her. Has she told you she is sorry?
Try and find out why she went to this man or he to her.
The truest love is a love that can endure the tribulations of life.
2006-07-18 00:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by MoonWoman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dont get fed up in life man.
Life takes everyone in different adventure in life.
Take life as it comes.
Dont give up or Die.
Take another alternative, try to neglect ur wife.
Make her feel that she has done something very wrong in her life.
Make her feel regret in her life.
And then forgive her plz, mistakes are done in young life but not make feel its effect for the rest of her life.
Life is totally different when u r young and when u grow up.
dont make her carry the pain of her young life in her better rest of her life.
Bye ..............
2006-07-18 03:24:40 · answer #5 · answered by uchitshah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Odds are YOUR brother was the one who put the moves on your wife. Or maybe he just treated her better than you did. Her brother in law, is after all your own brother. *hopes he knows that* Unless you mean she bonked her sister's husband...
Eitherway, if a woman cheats it's because you don't make her happy, treat her wrong, ignore her, abuse her, are a lazy bum, ugly, or just plain to dumb to be interesting so other men out do you every time.
I suggest learning English, grammar, how to make love, how to treat a woman, getting a better job, treating her great, speaking to her more, taking her out places, and making sure you learn how to be suave, dress better, come off as a Man. Might help..
Oh, she could also just be a hoe who doesn't care, and you could be a great guy whose just to wasted to type right, so I say divorce her. The family will always whisper about it, mock you behind your back, and she will likely cheat on you the next chance she gets. I know, I sound harsh but it's just reality baby.
Don't forget to blame the brother in law also! Get a good punch in.
2006-07-18 00:36:09 · answer #6 · answered by Inked Fantasy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was this before or after you married her? Was it your brother, or her sister's husband? It really depends on the specifics of the situation, but I'd suggest that you get some good, professional help and guidance in this matter.
Best wishes to you and your family.
2006-07-18 00:35:04 · answer #7 · answered by Miss_M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to beat your brother's ***.. it's that simple, and dump her, she did this with your "brother" what makes you think she hasn't done this with your friends and your mechanic?
2006-07-18 02:01:14 · answer #8 · answered by RICK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
resist the temptation to lash out
contact a good lawyer
2006-07-18 01:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by der_grosse_e 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be embarrassed. Don't be, you did nothing wrong. If you want the marriage to continue and she does too, you should see a marriage counselor. Good Luck and I really am sorry she did this to you.
2006-07-18 00:33:18 · answer #10 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋