Good looking men go for plain Janes.Why?

Answer 1

Sometimes, in the course of human events, a man runs across a woman whose personality is magnetic, and her sensuality surpasses even the most gorgeous of movie actresses. Anytime she enters a room, the estrogen level goes over the top. And her lovemaking makes him almost like a slave. Looks don't make any difference.

Answer 2

1) One maybe a plain Jane to you may not be a plain Jane to the man that she is with.
2) I have heard people saying that men are generally more visual. The key to this saying is, "generally", which means that there are some exceptions. Certain men may be more interested in a woman's personality/inner beauty than the physical appearance.

Answer 3

I would think that they aren't as high maintenance.
They won't cost as much, and need as much as the others.
I also think that they may think that to them ; they would make better companions, like to chill at night, and don't mind being the domestic type.
I think some guys like to see natural beauty also.. i read a poll where if the men chose for women to have a lot or a little bit of make-up on their mate~~~ they would chose for them to wear just a little bit, and almost all of them hated dark lipstick!
I am a plain Jane until we go out, or go to a function,, but my husband was when we married over 20 yrs. ago/although he is good looking, he still is and likes to be plain/// he doesn't like or need all the bells, and whistles in life, so therefore he makes me understand that " You can get full on a 50.00 meal just the same as a 100.00 meal"..... or his famous saying is: Who cares? nobody is going to notice ________________.
( I hate when he says that//because most of the time he is right.. but I still think it has to be the best, and perfect he-he)) ( please realize he isn't cheap or boring)


It is the same for the girls: I often wondered why the girls went for the "macho" , bad boy type,,when they should of chosen the "plain John" ones.. who to me: would make the best husband, and companion,, because the others liked to go out and party, and not really settle down like the "plain Johns" also,, they tend to make a better provider . Almost all of my friends who married the bad boy type are now divorced~.

Answer 4

Probably the same reason you see good-looking women who go for fat or ugly guys. Maybe they like what's on the inside, or how the "plain Janes" make them feel. They could find each other intellectually stimulating, or have a lot in common. If there's someone you really like, looks shouldn't be an issue.

Answer 5

It is my experience that "beautiful people"...both men and women usually know they are and have used their good looks to get them ahead in situations and have never had to really work on their personality. "Plain Janes" as you put it don't have the luxury of skating by in life and have had to actually be a good person. Now...I'm not saying all "beautiful people" are this way but they are few and far between.

The men you speak of have learned this lesson and prefer someone who they can have a conversation with instead of a pretty decoration on their arm.

Answer 6

Because men are insecure and cannot be with a woman that is mroe good looking than them without being overbearing idiots. If a guy knows he is more attractive than the female, he feels that he has control and she will do all she can to keep him by her side. If he gets a female that is just as good looking or even better, he loses the edge.

Answer 7

My experiance is the woman who goes out of her way to look "hot" have the man worried all the time about her attracing others. Women do your man a favor and be plain in public an a complete hottie at home.

Answer 8

Because men go for women with attitudes. We want a woman who is going to be a lady in public and a ***** in bed. We want a woman who will be a mother to our children and a forgiving friend when we screw up. It ain't all about looks, and in my long years of experience I have found that the really hot women are usually to stuck on themselves and don't have the attitude that most men want. They think they can get by on their looks alone. For the most part, we just use the cute ones as trophies. My advice if you are cute hot babe, get the attitude of your average looking friend....

Answer 9

Smart women are better in the long run than airheads. Lots of men would rather be with a woman who can carry on an intelligent conversation over one who only cares about clothes and make-up.

Answer 10

What's plain to you could be completely perfect to someone else. What's inside is a bit more important than what's outside and the sad truth is most beautiful women are snotty and self centered. I would rather be with someone that wanted me to spend time with them, not money!