Can someone please givie me advice?

Question

How do you turn your enemies into friends? Last year at school I wasnt so nice and this year i want to change any advice?

Answer 1

Humility is a positive attitude and I see that you are willing to be humble by wanting to turn your enemies into friends. With sincerity, approach each enemy that you have made in the past. Tell all your enemies one at a time that you realized how wrong you were and that you are now a totally different person who just wants to be a friend to everybody. Let them know that those words really come from your heart and ask for forgiveness from those you've hurt. I'm sure that if they see that you are sincere in both your actions and deeds, they would be most willing to forgive and welcome you to be their friend.

Improve your personality by being a very likable person with good characteristics such as kindness, generosity, helpfulness, etc. This will make them like you more. Don't ever go back to your old self again with many enemies. You'll see, your life will be more interesting and more worthwhile. Good luck.

Answer 2

Well, first off work on showing others you are a much better person, make an big effort to be kind, help others and actually apologize to those you may have hurt. It will take time for them to regain trust, but don't consider them enemies either. It is awesome you are wanting to make changes. Friendships in school can last a lifetime and it is well worth it to walk away from school with a good attitude about yourself and how you were the best you could be. You will look back at this time in your life many years from now and be so thankful you did this, promise!

Answer 3

Since you were the problem you're the one that has to make the first move. You don't need to go so far as to apologize but just speak to the people that you turned into enemies......sit with them at lunch.....make a comment about something funny during class. All the negative stuff you did last year do the opposite this year. Most people will give you a second chance and may become your friends.

Answer 4

You could say you are sorry to the ones that you were not as nice as you could have been. Then just start treating people a little better, because actions speak loader than words ever will. You also will have to remember not all will be as understanding as we would hope they will. So for them just continue to be nice.

Answer 5

I think you might begin by being kind to yourself. Actually the way we treat others usually reflects how we treat ourselves. Once school begins you will be comfortable being kind, and will be that way no matter who is around, or what situation arises. Taking responsibility for what you have already done is
a step in the right direction. Forgive yourself, and then ask those you hurt to forgive you.

Answer 6

You can't expect all of your enemies to be your friend.Maybe1 or 2 and that's no guarantee.Change your ways first,then make new friends If you go back to your old ways ,you can expect new enemies.

Answer 7

Do at least one random act of kindness each day. Avoid hanging around with those who encourage unkindness. Apologize as needed. Things will turn around.

Answer 8

start by being nice to those you were rude last year, and see them for who they are not how they look.

Answer 9

Just wear a smile in ur face always .... everybody will become ur friends

Answer 10

HAVE A PARTY OR A GET TOGETHER AND INVITE SOME OF THEM THAT U WOULDN'T NORMALLY INVITE. IF THAT DOESN'T WORK APOLOGIZE AND MOVE ON. U WON'T HAVE EVERYONES FRIENDSHIP. GOD LOVES U AND IF IT'S FOR U THEY WILL TO.