Iam shy,which my husband knows very well.I didnot have much exposureto outer world& i havent talked much with guys ,so i didnot know how to express my love towards my husband.but i loved him very much. imme after marriage he started loving my sister,who is more talkative.both of them loved each other.i was very jealous that he was very close with her.we r now 5 yrs married , husband thought of marrying her,but now she is married to some one else also told him that she didnot loved him at all.so now he is vexed & doesnt like me also for that.All these 5 yrs i loved him truly and lived only for him.i have a kid too who love him very much.but he says i dont possess any qualities as what my sister have so he hates me now and says he wants divorce and cannot live with me any more.i have changed a lot in 5 yrs ,iam no more shy ,i talk well with others.but i had felt sometimes during last 5yrs that he doesnt like me which i asked him,but never said he didnot like me earlier.how to make him me
2006-07-17 16:38:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sweet heart he will never love you the way you deserve to be loved...he is a cheat and he is using you to do his washing and his cooking and enything he can get out of you....leave him you will be far better off....find a good honest man you can trust...i repeat he will never change....
2006-07-17 16:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by Lynda B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of start praying! Then stop talking to anyone that knows him people tend to take one side. You need to sit him down and talk with him, you married him. Remember there are only three reasons you should leave him. Death, Cheating and Abondonment. If he is being physically abusive you should seek counseling and get your self to a safe place. But try to understand every great marriage has hard times, that is what make them great because they survive. If he truly wants to go let him leave but you dont give up becuase the Lord will bless you for giving it your best. But try to at least talk with him in a public place, make the enviroment comfortable but private at the same time. Like a restuaraunt or coffe shop. This way he should stay civilized, hopefully. But if that does not work dont talk to him alone ask him does he want to talk with a pastor.
2006-07-17 23:48:42 · answer #2 · answered by mrs.tinsley_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor darling; What a jerk he is, and sounds like he doesn't know what he really wants.....I believe no matter what you might try, he will never be happy with you....It seams to have been written in his heart, years back....Let the divorce come from him, but be sure you get from him what you are supposed to, half of the assets !!!.. Save your heart and mind, for maybe someone new later. Bless you Doll, and good luck......jw
2006-07-17 23:47:46 · answer #3 · answered by junglewalk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the kind of man.
So no common formality especial in this Age.
2006-07-17 23:46:38 · answer #4 · answered by HeavyRain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can do. Move on and find a good man. Good luck.
2006-07-17 23:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋