Babies having babies?

Question

DIS IS FOR ALL THE GIRLS DAT IS 13-16 AND DAT THINKS HAVIN SEX IS SUPPSE TO BE FUN WELL ITS NOT WEN U DECIDE TO HAVE SEX U BETTER MAKE SURE U PROTECT YOURSELF AND NEVER LET A MAN TELL U HE GO PULL OUT CUZ 9 TIMES OUT OF 10 DAT AINT TRUE I AHD MY BABY AT 17 AND GOT PREGNANT AT 16 TRUST ME IT AINT CUTE WALKING AROUND WITH A BIG BELLY AND HAVING TO STAY AT HOME ALL THE TIME BECAUSE U GOT MORNING SICK NESS THEN WHEN U HAVE THE BABY ITS NOT GO EVEN BE EASY CUZ U HAVE TO GET UP BOUT THREE FOUR TIMES OUT THE NIGHT TO SEE WHY THE BABY IS CRYING IM NOT TRYNA SCARE U ALL IM TYRNA DO IS TELL U DAT IT AINT ALL FUN TO NOT BE A VIRGIN SOMETIMES U MIGHT NOT OF HAD SEX WIT A CERTAIN PERSON AND THEY MAY HAVE LIED TO SOMEBODY AND TOLD THEM U WAS A HOE AND DIS AND DAT JUST BE CARFUL WAT U DO AND WEN U DO IT BECAUSE U DONT WANT TO BE PAYIN THE CONSEQUESENCE FOR SOMETHING YOUR NOT READY FOR

they way i feel is that we should be able to still have fun but with out the sex and women coming up with all kinds of diseas and young girls coming up pregnant if these men really GAVE A DAMN they would actually wait for us but since were in love with them we would be stupid for them which is something we dont have to do if he cant wait for you then hes not the one find someone who i ready when your are dont give in to these no good *** MEN find you one whos going to make you feel good not by having sex but by showing you are his queen and he does respect you

AND I DONT NEED ANYBODYS SMART COMMENTS ON HOW I WRITE BECAUSE I WRITE HOW I TALK SO **** OFF AND I DONT NEED CRAZY PPL RITE NOW I KNOW WAT SPELL CHECK IS AND I PREFRE NOT TO USE IT I DONT HAVE TO BE PROPER ABOUT EVERYTHING I DO DUMB ***'S

Answer 1

i hear what ya saying 'cause i'm 15 and i made the mistake of having sex my first time with someone who didn't love me. And i thought it was going to be kept between me and him and he went and told each and everyone that he could. I respect you though for holding it down and telling your story i know now more than ever that the next time i have sex it's with someone with whom i know loves me and will always be there for me.

Answer 2

NOT BEING RUDE OR ANYTHING BUT........
quit fussing about getting pregnant it's not our fault cause you got knocked up by someone who doesn't respect you. you should've thought about how life would be before you started having sex. not only did a man disrespect you but you fussing like this shows you disrespected your self and want people to feel sorry for you. so you need to get off the computer and spend time with the baby you now have.

Answer 3

Ok first off I must the ebonics is not cute! You should not reproduce if you can't talk properly. Second it's called spell check. Third do you really think people will take you seriously?

Answer 4

Girl i feel u cuz bein high school that is all alot of girls are doin. Keep yo dead up n u will make it. It will be worth the struggle.

Answer 5

Blah ****** blah....yes i had sex and had my son at sixteen did i ***** no why because you play like an adult you take your responsibility's like an adult.its no ones business what anyone does so shut it. P.S there is spell check use it. and my son is a healthy 5 yr old with no problems because i stood up and grew up .

Answer 6

Shout it from the mountain woman (you are a woman now). I commend you for being an aware mom. Hang in there and prevent it from happening again too soon.

Answer 7

dang girl i agree with u that y i keeps my legs close love or not cuz in the end 85% of the time its gonna be u and that baby no matter what.

Answer 8

go on girls have your fun while there is still time.
If you are going to send a message make sure that you can get a reply.

I just do not care what others do with there lives

Answer 9

amen. i got pregnant at 16..miscarried..and got pregnant a year later..now i have a baby girl :)

most are NOT ready to be havin kids..there kids themselves

Answer 10

this sight is for questions hint "yahoo questions" not to preach to us an nobody cares about your problems that half the teens that i know are going through.