I recently started dating a guy who likes to be tied up and dominated during sex. I do not mind meeting his request..but...HELP...what should I be doing. I've never done that before. Any suggestions?
2006-07-17 16:31:56 · 6 answers · asked by lesa12361 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It sounds like if he already has an idea of what he wants done to him, he would be your first best resource. Seriously, this kind of interaction depends deeply on communication and trust, and what better way than to talk about it with your partner.
After you get the general idea of what he wants in his submissive role, then you'll want to determine what you would like to get out of it yourself. Right now, it sounds like you are more or less going through the motions, which is OK, but eventually it will come to a point where you either tire of it, or you want more out of it.
There are plenty of resources that you can avail yourself of. I would recommend finding an on-line personals site, such as http://alt.com/ or http://www.bondage.com/, and perhaps look at what others get into. You might find something there that you've not heard of but has your curiosity.
You can also get into a chat room designed for this topic. Once you have an idea of the what, you'll need to figure out the how, and other people into the same thing can tell you what to do and what not to do.
As always, communicate with your partner. Ultimately both of you have veto power over was goes on in the bedroom, so it's still about the relationship. Most important of all, have fun. Who knows, you might actually enjoy it!
2006-07-17 18:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by Ѕємι~Мαđ ŠçїєŋŧιѕТ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Domination and Bondage Dating
2016-05-31 04:28:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about his fantasies, what he wants you to do, and talk about YOURS, make sure there's some even exchanges here.
Talk about what his limits are- how long, how rough, etc. If he wants a picture of the occasion....
there are many websites that help beginners. and books
2006-07-17 17:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tie him up and make him helpless. than tease him with sex. slap him and make him cry like a girl. he will love it.
2006-07-18 09:42:03 · answer #4 · answered by maria_cd_in_training 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a website and read sbout it or go to your local adult toy store and buy some stuff
2006-07-17 16:36:28 · answer #5 · answered by not2smarttoday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smack him around, tie him up spank him and tell him what a bad boy he's been.
2006-07-17 16:37:39 · answer #6 · answered by UlickNme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋