my daddy just got outta surgery and now he cant pick up more than 10 pounds im 12 and they set this schedule for allmy 4 brothers and me. so all my relatives are coming back and forth to babysit while my mom goes to work and my dad caant pick up the baby since hes to heavy for him now and now my fav aunt and grandma are bossing me around and now i feel gothic but i no im not cause like im always hiper and this is totally bring me down!!
2006-07-17 16:27:21 · 6 answers · asked by illustrator #12 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
how abt u do ur part without having them to boss u around..and if they do jus tell them nicely u know wat to do..u hav a duty towards ur dad my dear...
2006-07-17 16:31:52 · answer #1 · answered by devangel1980 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
best advice from someone who's been there... get a journal, write it all down, all your feelings, then once its out on paper you can do what you w ant with it, throw it away or lock up to look at another day. I am naturally hyper and happy so whenever something gets me down i write, or go for a jog, just let it out and don't let it bother you. If things are to the point where they are telling you to do things or not letting you do the things you were once able to do (without making it harder for your dad) say something to those that are doin the bossing, Some times with all the stress of a loved one sick the adults dont realize they are taking it out on their most precious gift, the lil ones. If your not comfortable talking to them directly write them a dear gram-ma or aunt letter, express exactly how your feel without accusing, then suggest a compromise or a solution to how you think the problem could be solved.
2006-07-18 01:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by babyangel_04001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not turn gothic. nothing against them but this is only gonna last a little while. there is no reason to change your whole like because you are feeling down. Blast some music or if you cant make noise scream into a pillow. Put a warm washcloth or a cold one over ur face. It works. You must be just like me I HATE being controlled
2006-07-17 23:32:31 · answer #3 · answered by samantha h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel last year my dad had a heartattack and they lost him at the house but they shocked him back i am total daddys girl and i thought i was going to have a heartattack.you just have to hang in there everything will be alright
2006-07-18 10:38:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there. I have a feeling this will be shortlived. Just pitch in and help and they'll get off your back.
2006-07-17 23:31:21 · answer #5 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your head up. It wont last forever.
2006-07-17 23:32:22 · answer #6 · answered by kristen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋