weird, strange, uneasy?

Question

We were divorced for 5yrs now. My ex and I are still in good terms, we have 3 beautiful boys. Ever since our divorced, he knew im seeing someone else. Did suggested on coming back together again but i refused. For your info, we re-married once b4, meaning got married then divorced then remarry again. 2 weeks ago, he broke the news dat he's marrying in Dec. I met the gal last week when they came to fetch the kids. No comments on her. Why do i have this weird,strange,uneasy feeling?? I've met several of his past galfren b4 this since our divorce but no1 disturbs me. Funny feeling........

Answer 1

It is so normal to feel this way. Especially if he is getting married, it is putting a final point to the relationship even if you were divorced. Let yourself feel this, get past it and realize that you are both better off.

Answer 2

Breaks-ins. i'm continually nervous somebody will injury into my residing house. So i'm continually locking the doors and at evening if I hear somebody outdoors around my residing house i arise to examine it out. i've got had stuff thrown at my residing house considering the fact that I stay best next to a park the place those punk little ones take a seat and drink and smoke. So i'm continually checking on "noises" around the residing house.

Answer 3

Maybe your weird,strange,uneasy feeling is because you no longer have him on a "hook" and are losing the control over him you had when he wanted to get back together- and guess what? You just have to get used to the idea he's moving on- if you wanted him you should have stayed married to him- get used to it.

Answer 4

it is called moving on and the fact that he can replace you. time will heal that for the both of you. Keep on good terms and do not let your feeing get in the way of for either of you.

Answer 5

Maybe he's trying to get the kids from you... be prepared.

Answer 6

All I can say is, you will find out soon enough.