how old should i be befor i have sex???because i have a boyfriend n he ask me to have sex with him. it will be my first time but it will not be his first time.i need some help.
(p.s i'am15 year old)
2006-07-17 16:20:47 · 30 answers · asked by Mis.Jones 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Married.
2006-07-17 16:21:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I faced this problem when I was 15. Sex is not dependent on your age. You should only have sex within marriage. You live in a world where sex outside of marriage is common and those who do otherwise are considered wierd. I am 23 years old and a virgin by choice. The opportunities have been there, but I haven't taken them. That's not an easy decision, but it's the right one. If there has never been a time and place where you have accepted Jesus Christ as your Savior, I encourage you to do so. My faith in Christ is the reason I have made this decision. Sex doesn't bring happiness. Peace with God does. God gave you the natural desires to have sex, but it is only to be had as a gift after you're married. I encourage you to go to a good Baptist church.
2006-07-17 16:29:53 · answer #2 · answered by italylover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15
2006-07-17 16:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by dorionland 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please wait until you are married. I know this sounds like outrageous advice, but it should be with someone you can count on for the rest of your life. Someone that deeply cares about you and is committed to your relationship. You control your own body. Never let anyone talk you into anything that you are not ready for. Sex changes everything. You must be ready to have children, no protection is 100%. Don't do it. If he breaks up with you because of it, he is not worth keeping, because he doesn't respect you. YOU have the control in this situation.
2006-07-17 16:29:46 · answer #4 · answered by Jeff A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My neice was 15 had sex for the 1st time. 9 months later had a son. went back to school . today the baby is one. It is hard being a young mother thankfully the grandparents had means and heart to help raise the baby but this poor teenager has missed out on a lot of fun things not to mention sleep. Please wait till 18! Oh and father is already out of the picture as well as his parents
2006-07-17 16:26:48 · answer #5 · answered by miestra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
legally 16 for a girl and 18 for a boy. If you believe in marriage after sex then have sex after marriage. Other than that it is based on your opinion when you feel you are ready and you feel you have found the right guy.
remember it is a big committment and can make your feelings run wild.
2006-07-17 16:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by ness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not emotionally ready for s*x. I am speaking from experience. I would say wait until you are engaged or married. WHY? Because that is someone you can TRUST. I'm sorry to tell you that boys cannot be trusted at this point until they have committed themselves to you completely. I'm not saying they are evil, I'm just saying that their hormones are raging and they are desperate for release. It's what they wake up and go to bed thinking about 24/7. Save your gift, baby. You can't get it back, so make sure it is for a special someone who truly, TRULY, loves you and wants to be with you forever.
2006-07-17 16:29:40 · answer #7 · answered by julesl68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be married before you have sex. The Bf does not care about you if he asking you for it. Serisouly, he is only askign for selfish reasons, dont cave. Also if it's not his first time, he could be giving you STD's that are uncurable and you may have to live with for the rest of your life. It's so not worth it. Just wait till you get married. I did, and trust me, married sex is best.
2006-07-17 16:24:24 · answer #8 · answered by spockofvullcan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, please, please do not have sex. They tell you about pregnancy and disease, but they don't tell you that every guy you have sex with takes a piece of you with him. If you are afraid that he will break up with you if you don't, for one thing, he's not worth it, and for another, he's more likely to break up with you after he gets what he wants from you, which is sex. He will then move on to the next girl.
You really should wait until you are married, but please wait until you are at least 18. You are special, beautiful, and worth so much - don't just give yourself away. You have years and years to experience sex, don't be in a hurry. There is no precaution that will guarantee you will not end up pregnant or with aids or herpes - all lifelong conditions that will impair your ability to be intimate in the future, when you find the one you really want to be with.
Please wait.
2006-07-17 16:28:52 · answer #9 · answered by Nitris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not yet, that's for sure! you had best wait
a)until you find the right one, and
b)until you are at least 18 or 20...
have you seen all the people who ask when people first had sex and whether they regretted it? all under ~18 regret it, over 18, usually was a good experience! trust me, it's worth waiting! good luck!
2006-07-17 16:25:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋